Do you believe in second chances?
By chiwasaki
@chiwasaki (4694)
Philippines
October 5, 2015 4:17pm CST
Have you been in a relationship and in then end, it did not work? You have tried your best to save the relationship but somehow, it is not really meant to be. What if your ex boyfriend or girlfriend will ask for a second change? Will you accept them knowing that he/she previously cheated on you? Will you disregard all the pain that you experienced and take a big leap for the second chance?
Kindly share your thoughts on this.
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5 responses
@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
5 Oct 15
Hi Judy, I would also like to go for a second chance. In case my husband and I will encounter a difficulty in our relationship, I will definitely go for second chances. However, if I was single and my ex boy friend wants to come back and is asking for second chance, I will politely say no.
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@Salamnda (476)
• United Kingdom
5 Oct 15
every case has its experience and each one of us is different than the others
and it depends on what and how and who is involved , and whats the chances that things will go right direction to chances that things will never work out for both of you
sometimes its better to find another , and sometimes the breakup shows you both new sides of you that you did not know about each other , so that might effect the second chance you may give ,
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@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
5 Oct 15
I agree with you. This will depend entirely on your previous experience with the person if you will give him/her a chance. It will also depend on the reason as to why you break up with that person. In my case, I believe in second chances, but will depend on who is that person is.
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@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
6 Oct 15
I believe in second chances, but not for cheating. It has happened to me before, and, I think that once it happens, the best is to move on, carry the suffering for some time, and continue with my life alone. If the relationship ended for some other reasons, and the other person is willing to give it a try one more time, and I still feel something for her, it may be. Although, myself, I have never been in such situation before.
@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
6 Oct 15
I am also not against second chances specially if your previous relationship is like the right love at the wrong time. And the second chance is the perfect time.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
6 Oct 15
@chiwasaki it intend to change if they really want to be with you.
@softbabe44 (5816)
• Vancouver, Washington
6 Oct 15
it really depends if you worked at it and worked at it and it still bothers you and you can't get past that it means something must be wrong somewhere but you really don't know if that second change is really worth it but if you think you can get past it and retry it may be something to think about
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