Misunderstanding
By Swati
@utkarshan28 (133)
India
October 15, 2015 9:26am CST
Have you misunderstood anybody ever?
I have done couple of mistakes by misunderstanding the peoples around me, knowing the fact they really care for me but still I have believed what I want to believe at that point.
I am lucky to got a chance to clear all those misunderstanding and having them back with me.But I always think why all that mess is really happen?
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4 responses
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
15 Oct 15
I misunderstand people all the time and i'm even talking about family members..
I hope you aren't having anymore issues..
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@utkarshan28 (133)
• India
15 Oct 15
Thanks to God no issues.
It is miserable to loose a person for lifetime due to this silly mistake.
It is miserable to loose a person for lifetime due to this silly mistake.2 people like this
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Oct 15
It is good to hear that you were able to clear your misunderstandings with others.
You see we are human beings and committing mistakes is part of life. It so happens that sometimes, we misunderstand the other person without knowing much about him/her or his/her intentions.
We generally go by our own opinions and we think that we are always right but sometimes our judgement about others comes out to be incorrect and this could lead to misunderstanding.
Another reason of misunderstanding is - communication gap. We just don't listen to others with intent and we react immediately. I feel that we should be patient enough to listen to others' point of view before framing an opinion about him/her and before reacting.
Like-wise sometimes we say something jokingly but the other person takes it seriously and feels offended and this could lead to misunderstanding.
If misunderstanding occurs, it is better to clear it by saying sorry, so that thereafter, things could run smoothly.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Oct 15
@utkarshan28 - Yes, you are right that communication is imperative, if there is a misunderstanding and one of the parties decides to stay quiet, then it is difficult to clear the misunderstanding, this is what I believe.
If your well wishers creates some sort of misunderstanding between you and them or between you and others, then they are not your well wishers (you should deal with them with due care in future).
@utkarshan28 (133)
• India
16 Oct 15
That's very true.
In my part misunderstandings were created by so called well wishers.
Faith and clear communication can keep away misunderstandings in any relationships. That is the only reason why I can clear all polluted air.
Faith and clear communication can keep away misunderstandings in any relationships. That is the only reason why I can clear all polluted air.1 person likes this
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
15 Oct 15
Swati mistakes are often as we are human beings. But one who clear his mistakes or misunderstanding is really super .
@rahulvsmokiee (3110)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
15 Oct 15
Lol! i had. It was to one of the friend in the college.I am still feeling sad for that.
@utkarshan28 (133)
• India
15 Oct 15
Actually I think all have their share of regrets in life.
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@rahulvsmokiee (3110)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
15 Oct 15
@utkarshan28 yeah lol! have a great day. I am glad that new indians are coming in here. Nice to meet you.
