How to work into a divorce

@sallypup (69174)
Centralia, Washington
October 27, 2015 5:49pm CST
Don't want to be married? Then don't bother to learn to speak like a civil human being. Want a divorce? Try the blame game. That works well. Don't want to continue having a partner then get going on the 'Well, you said....' And for sure, do not bother to wait and listen to what your partner might want or need to contribute to the battle. Just verbally punch. You'll see. He or she will walk. Or run.
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@jstory07 (148731)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Oct 15
Never stay married for the sake of the children. They will suffer with you.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
28 Oct 15
@jstory07 it's staying that makes it worse. If it has become unbearable then the more one should divorce for the sake of the children.
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@sallypup (69174)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Oct 15
@Beatburn I agree plus the kids get used to fighting as a normal way to be.
@sallypup (69174)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Oct 15
You're right. I hate how the innocents- fur kids as well as human kids- suffer in divorces.
@poehere (15123)
• French Polynesia
27 Oct 15
Sort of sound like you're going through a rough time and sort of resent your partner for wanting a divorce. This is hard and it won't be easy especially if you've been together a long time. Try to be civil and get through it and remain friends. Especially if you have children in common.
@sallypup (69174)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Oct 15
OMG. Sorry. You have me snorting over here. No I am not. I promise you hubby and I are doing well together. This was meant as a way to showcase horrid behavior. I hope my daughter reads your comment. She probably needs a chuckle.
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@poehere (15123)
• French Polynesia
28 Oct 15
@sallypup Oops now I feel like a real idiot. I guess I am use to a lot of French ways and island ways. when a person has problems they sort of talk in 3rd person so they can listen to all the solution and not let on it's them. I sort of took it that way here.
@sallypup (69174)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Oct 15
@poehere I love to hear how folks in far away places differ from me. I was writing like the goofball that at times I am.
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• United States
28 Oct 15
Divorce is easy to get, what is hard is to stay married.
• United States
28 Oct 15
@Beatburn Oh hello my friend! I hope you stay married for all eternity.Happily of course.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
28 Oct 15
@TiarasOceanView Now that's a quotable quote.
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@sallypup (69174)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Oct 15
It takes work. You've got to like and cherish your partner. That helps a person to want to work through the hard times.
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@DeborahDiane (40845)
• Laguna Woods, California
28 Oct 15
You are absolutely right. Blaming the other person in a relationship will send them packing.
@sallypup (69174)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Oct 15
The blame game has to be the sourest game invented.