Will you identify your friend if he/she borrows money via the net?

borrow money
@youless (114117)
Guangzhou, China
November 6, 2015 11:51pm CST
Today there are quite a lot of cases of being cheated via the net. This morning a friend contacted me online and said he forgot to bring money outside. He asked me to lend him about $100. Although the money is not that much, but I still kept alert and I didn't want to being cheated. So I especially asked him several personal questions to make sure that he was my friend rather than a cheater After I confirmed his identification, I just transferred money to his account by my cellphone. It was easy and quick. Some people just forget the identification step and finally they are cheated. We have to be very careful to deal with this case when it happens online.
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@softbabe44 (5815)
• Vancouver, Washington
7 Nov 15
I think that was very gracious what you did and it was above and beyond the call of duty you seen a good person thanks for being so understanding .
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@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
8 Nov 15
In fact I asked him a wrong question to test him, too Such as I asked him what does your wife teach in the university? (In fact his wife is teaching in high school)
@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
9 Nov 15
@softbabe44 He is a smart person, so I think he will understand it.
• Vancouver, Washington
8 Nov 15
@youless Well thats one way of testing him you think he knew what you were doing?
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@celticeagle (189988)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Nov 15
I think $100 bucks is a substantial bit of money to loan someone. What a lame excuse that he come out without any money. I would probably wonder if it was who he said he was too. We do have to be so careful now days.
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@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
8 Nov 15
Perhaps lately he is short in money. I am sure he will return money to me as I have known him for years. I can't believe that our friendship is just worth $100.
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@celticeagle (189988)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Nov 15
@youless ...I hope not too.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
7 Nov 15
I admire your for doing that identification check first. Man people get fooled for not using their head.
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@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
7 Nov 15
People don't realize that their friends social accounts are stolen. There is a funny real case happened to my colleague's friend. She was a boss. One day her QQ account was stolen and the cheater sent a link to each one from QQ list and asked them to pay for it. Since she was a boss, so some of her employees were cheated. Who dared to say no in front of her boss? It is must more dangerous for a boss's account is stolen.
@gudheart (12659)
7 Nov 15
I have never lent that much to a friend but have lent a lot to family.
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@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
7 Nov 15
Perhaps due to the inflation, $100 is much but it is not that much any more. If you go to buy the food from the market, it is easy to use up $20