Not sure if I should of told her?
@ricki_911 (21625)
Toronto, Ontario
November 28, 2015 5:40pm CST
My friend as I had posted before.
She was semi seeing a guy, who in my opinion was very shy and unsure of himself. He stopped talking to her several months back over some arguement.
He couldn't face her without being nervous, figetty and smiling. He would show up randomly, or pass her on the road (even though he lives nowhere near her - at least a 45 minute drive). If he was with a friend she would say his friend would be loud and try to get her attention.
I was with her about a month or so ago, and saw this. I really thought she was in denial, or didn't want to believe it. But I completely agree this guy is nervous and doesn't know what to do.
I told her to say something, he probably nervous of what she would say or react. I am not sure if I should of told her this. But at least she would know. Another friend of ours (she is more closer to her), was asking her what she thought of him, and if she would date him. She then sent this guy a facebook message in which he viewed it but didn't reply. I told her really what else can you do if he want take the risk.
My other friend told her to go find him at his work, and talk to him. I said well I am not sure he read that facebook message (never replied, but read it). He can't talk to her as he gets nervous, and fidgetty, smiling away. I said clearly by his body language as noone just gets nervous by someone like that.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Nov 15
hi wow thats a hard one to inow what to suggest to her The poor g uy need help or a psychologist Im not sure which. she should try to talk tohim to find out just what he wants. Evildently he has a crusy on her'bu t your description of him makes me a bit nervous LIke maybe he is a bit weird in some way. I would suggest if they get together theydo it someplace where there are lots of people. smiling sounds sort of bizarre to me. tell her to be careful.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
29 Nov 15
That's what I thought. They have gone out a few times, but what she told me was he was rather nervous (which she found ackward).
I was out with her about a month ago, it could be concidence he happened to be behind us. I was driving her car (as mine was being fixed). He pulled up behind us, and followed close, then backed off then followed close. I thought that was weird, and realized after it was this guy.
I didn't want to make an opinion but she kept asking. I think she wants someone to tell her what to do. I didn't believe how he was acting until I was with her, and after that incident we were in the grocery store and she made a comment about the truck he drove and how it looked like this one parked at the store across the road. We wernt into the grocery store and sure enough I stood watching him get into his truck with a friend and drive across to the grocery store.
I told her that, she has met him but does she really know him. I thought it sounded like he was shy, and not sure how to approach her. I have been with her and that was my impression I got. But I told her if he's not even trying find someone who does want to spend time with her.
