Are you in Love? Or it's just an Infatuation?

@shubhu3 (36463)
New Delhi, India
January 15, 2016 9:45am CST
Love is an amazing experience that makes you accept a person completely and love him/her wholeheartedly.You share your life happenings with the person;attributes like trust,care,concern,honesty and a lot more gets enhanced. It's more than anyone can ever explain.It is permanent.It makes you serious with someone and makes you stay with someone forever and it usually grows with time. Infatuation,on the other hand,is a feeling that I'm in love when I in reality am not.It makes you confuse with love because of which many a times we tend to be with someone and tend to make mistakes by acting serious and making commitments that are temporary.Here, lust is the most dominant or the sole acting factor.Infatuation is usually temporary but can last up-to 3 years so be careful. Never confuse love with infatuation and vice-versa. Be very sure about your feelings for someone and then only take a step in getting into a relationship or in becoming serious with someone.
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@DanciaKS (187)
15 Jan 16
Infatuation is based off looks and fades. Love doesn't fade unless the person changes.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
15 Jan 16
Absoulutely. Infatuation is based on the outer appearance of a person while love is more focussed on the inner soul of a person.
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@DanciaKS (187)
15 Jan 16
@shubhu3 yes! Soul and personality
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
15 Jan 16
@DanciaKS Yeah.
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• Philippines
27 Jun 16
I know what Love is and what is infatuation... I have that thing called love and it's a wonderful feeling and terrible at the same time. Infatuation doesn't last that long... It's just like having a crush.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
27 Jun 16
Yeah exactly.That is good that what you have is love. :)
• United States
15 Jan 16
At the beginning of a relationship sometimes it's hard to tell between love and infatuation
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
16 Jan 16
Yeah that's the bitter truth.It's like you need to know someone properly and gradually things will be unfolded and then you can observe yourself to know what it is actually.
• Philippines
16 Jan 16
If you really think about it. Infatuation is where everything starts. I mean, how can you truly love a person if you were not infatuated by that person in various areas? The important thing is, people subconsciously evolve infatuation to love. As love starts, regardless of the physical attraction, the relationship stays together because of the other factors. Kudos~!
@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
16 Jan 16
Yeah you are right.Infatuation is the start up of any kind of love.If it gets converted into love it is well and good but if if it doesn't then it may hurt someone else.But yeah relationship stays forever as the love continues.