Blindfold - Testing your own Resolve
@pgiblett (6524)
Canada
January 25, 2016 10:52am CST
Many years ago I attended a personal development session. This session was led by an actor who trained other actors and part of what she was teaching was about use of space. One of the exercises involved rolling a small coloured ball (a ping-pong ball to be precise) out across the floor, putting a blindfold on then trying to retrieve the ball. I was horrified by this - there was no way I would succeed, so I have long since learned this is the time to volunteer first.
I rolled the ball out, judged it stopping point to be about six and a half paces away and about 1.5 metres from the presenter. The assistant put the blindfold on. I expected to miss it entirely, but instead I did it, I walked straight out, bent down and picked up the ball without hesitation. The trainer had never seen anyone do that before, most people stop arms length away and sweep for the ball.
Have you ever challenged yourself in such a way?
I hate blindfolds, they have always made me aware of my greatest fear, blindness. Well a few years later I was blind for a few weeks (and I include my article about this at the end). When this had happened I was sat on the sofa in the living room and was about to go to bed four paces forward I should be able to touch the TV, I walked the four paces, but crashed into the table next to me. How? Why? I remembered that exercise and could not understand why I turned 180 degrees in 4 steps.
The difference of time? Perhaps a different situation?
I have written before about those frightening days back in June when I faced and experienced my greatest fear, they were horrible days and was reminded of them when recollecting the worst of times those months ago. Of course these memories may fade, but th
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
25 Jan 16
I am going to read your article on Wikinut because my worst fear is the same: blindness. My mother suffers of AMD (Macular Degeneration), she is not blind, but she has a blurred vision now. My doctor says it's not hereditary, but I am still scared. This is one of the reason why I move around the house in perfect darkness, I try to see how well I can do.
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
25 Jan 16
@pgiblett This must be the worst of all disabilities. I know a young woman who became blind at the age of 15 (rare disease). Life has not been easy for her for many years, but now she is married and she is capable to do everything around the house.
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@WendySpickerman (983)
• United States
25 Jan 16
I can walk around my home in the dark without turning on anything.. I was like that as a child as well.. I just have a higher than usual recall of where things are around me. However, I can't blindfold myself because that would set of my already severe tinnitus and severe hyperacusis as that puts more strain on other senses like the ears.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
25 Jan 16
I am like that, but whenever I face a challenge like that I go for it first. If I mess up I can use the excuse that I was the Guinea pig for the rest of the group. I am also facing my fears head on.
@arthurchappell (44941)
• Preston, England
25 Jan 16
you did well to solve the ping pong ball problem - blindness scares me too - I have a good friend who is going blind and he is very brave in coming to terms with it - not sure if I could
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
26 Jan 16
I had bandages over my eyes after surgery. When I had to put my trust into the nurse to guide me to the bathroom, I had a difficult time. However, when my husband guided me, the trust was there, even riding home in the car, climbing the stairs to my bedroom, and settling in. Sight is the one sense I hope to never lose.
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@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
25 Jan 16
I had never experienced that type of training. Just last night they had a news story where this guy who went blind a few years ago is now walking all the hiking trails in the US with his seeing eye dog. He said he uses sounds to tell when someone is coming or to tell what the landscape is like by the echo of his voice.
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@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
26 Jan 16
I think you nailed it. Awareness, blindness and fearlessness. They are all so closely related. Trivial but when loading the article for some reason it was all blue like the background but finally loaded with a white background where the writing is. That made it easier to read. Interesting effect.
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