Can Marriage Change People?
By cherigucchi
@cherigucchi (14879)
Philippines
January 31, 2016 7:33pm CST
Marriage is something people should take seriously. When people get married, I believe that this can change them. Priorities changes and making decisions is not only for one especially if it also concerns the other and the relationship.
What changes have you noticed to married couples or yourself if you are already married?
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@hellopeeps (403)
• United States
1 Feb 16
People change their habbits, the way they behave, speak, music they listen do things that they like people that they hang out with or even talk to marriage can dramatically change people if you ask me.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
1 Feb 16
That is right. I do agree with you on that.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
3 Feb 16
@Angel_15 I agree with you on that because the same thing happens to us.
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@Daljinder (23231)
• Bangalore, India
2 Feb 16
I have noticed people becoming more responsible and maturity that was long overdue comes along finally...
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
3 Feb 16
I can also observe that transition between couple.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
3 Feb 16
That is good to know. Those are the few things that change when people get married.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
1 Feb 16
I am divorced. It does changes things, and a lot more than you would realize. It is a lot of a responsibility. It is something that people should not go into lightly.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
1 Feb 16
Yes, it is really a lot of responsibility.
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@Angel_15 (670)
• Manila, Philippines
1 Feb 16
What if it's a change for the better? I used to think the same, but now I believe that couples must make some changes to make their relationship work. I'm basing this on my own experience. My husband and I have been together for almost 11 years. At first it was very difficult because we both had serious attitude problems. But we really wanted to make our relationship work, so we made a conscious effort to be better people. We still aren't perfect. No one is. But I'm happy that we love each other enough to accept our shortcomings and strive to be better.
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@LadyDuck (457920)
• Switzerland
2 Feb 16
@Angel_15 I have almost never seen people changing for better and anyway when I married my husband (40 years ago), I married him because I loved him as he was. He did not change, he has always the same bad temper, but we are happy together.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Feb 16
@cherigucchi That's how it is when you are already a mother .
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
4 Feb 16
Same thing with me. I think less of myself when I have kids.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
1 Feb 16
marriage does change people .
I know that because I know many people who are married and then separated.
In my opinion, a signature does not change things .
if two people love nothing can stop them but the love you feel for each other must be true .
But when people do this step in your life need to know that everything is changing and should be ready for this decision !
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@Letranknight2015 (51499)
• Philippines
1 Feb 16
of course, everything changes with marriages, there are more challenges there and the more of the real you is seen through by your other half. its never easy that's for sure, which is why there are conflicts and arguments.
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
3 Feb 16
That is another side of the discussion but I believe that we cannot change the person and we must not.
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@dianadee (1778)
• South Africa
1 Feb 16
It's what you can bring to the marriage not what you think that you can get out of it.
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
3 Feb 16
@cherigucchi it's either for better...or for worse 
@PoetRoyyy (16)
• Mumbai, India
1 Feb 16
responsibilities increase, so do expectations from life. Pleasure and satisfaction level increases. People get confident, since there's someone to always stand by their side..
yeah..
such changes..
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@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
1 Feb 16
I observed that it changes when married. The more it is when having children.
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