Hater
By Raine38
@Raine38 (12387)
United States
February 11, 2016 10:43am CST
For a while there, I thought I made a new friend from another town. She and I met through a blogging platform and we somehow connected because we're both from the Philippines and we found out that we are just a few miles apart. It sounds promising, but then we have common"acquaintances". And one of them is the gal who I Interviewed for this same job but I happened to get it. And it seems like she happily filled her in about how its a bad idea to befriend me. Unfortunately for me, she listened and started to avoid me. At first, I want to defend myself. But then, why bother? Why bother if she already made up her mind. It will just fan the issue even more and I am sure that the hater will be jumping with joy knowing that it affected me that much.
Oh well, try again.
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12 responses
@GardenGerty (169477)
• United States
11 Feb 16
Patsie is most likely right. I know that people who have lots of negatives in their mind about everything often are really unhappy themselves.
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@Raine38 (12387)
• United States
12 Feb 16
@GardenGerty this is true. She is not in a good place yet, but makes me wonder why she wants to be surrounded with all the negativity instead.
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Feb 16
Some people have nothing better to do with their lives than make problems for others. I'm sorry but she probably wouldn't have been a good friend anyway from the sound of it.
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@GardenGerty (169477)
• United States
11 Feb 16
If you do not try to convince her otherwise she may decide later that she would like your friendship after all. If she looks with an open mind.
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@allknowing (153530)
• India
12 Feb 16
It was foolish of her to get swayed like that. Not worth continuing and you did the right thing.
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@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
12 Feb 16
You should never put out on those people who have done damage to your self.
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@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
13 Feb 16
@Raine38 Just keep close friends who you can trust,not necessarily many but a few.
@ElusiveButterfly (45941)
• United States
12 Feb 16
If this person would rather listen to the ramblings of another than to see the good in another person, that person isn't worth losing sleep over. When I meet someone, I am the one that will decide if I am going to carry on a friendship with them. I do not let the views of another cloud my thoughts.
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@softbabe44 (5815)
• Vancouver, Washington
12 Feb 16
I would rethink this one i think the real person stands out.
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@quarternoes (236)
• Indianapolis, Indiana
12 Feb 16
Good thing you found out early. Better a good enemy then a bad friend.
