The Hardest Thing To Do
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (141905)
Philippines
February 28, 2016 10:32pm CST
In a relationship, there is always a misunderstanding. We do agree that there is no perfect world in a relationship. There are some instances that the hardest thing to do is to explain one's side, and then the other half declines the explanations. Our mind will burst with uncertainty if it will work out. If you love someone, you will not surrender and continue to save the relationship. As they said, it is the way how to love someone in different levels. That's the real meaning of love; there are no weigh things out. What do you think? Is it considered being martyr?
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11 responses
@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
29 Feb 16
I don't know I'm still single
But i think you will find the true meaning of love under your terms with your partner. that is something we can't explain, every one seems to have different true love these days.
But i think you will find the true meaning of love under your terms with your partner. that is something we can't explain, every one seems to have different true love these days.2 people like this
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
29 Feb 16
@Letranknight2015 I think it is always the real meaning of effort in taking the chances of saving such relationship.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
29 Feb 16
Actually , one can tell if the other person is lying . Though , we should give the lime to listen to the explanation first before bombarding the other one with what we think about it .
Sometimes , couples should set aside pride , to keep the relationship going smoothly .
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@MGjhaud (23228)
• Philippines
29 Feb 16
i guess you'll know when to stop when you get there. its hard to say something when it comes to intimate relationship unless you're involved. some are too good when it comes to advises but cant practice what they preach often. its just really how you love and respect yourself.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
29 Feb 16
Give her too much time, Baby girl will complain about how she felt choked because she cant live her own life because you always follow her around. Give her the space she wanted and she will complain that that you are not giving her attention. Sometimes it is really hard to read the person you have relationship with.
Fiancees are crazy like puppies with rabies.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
29 Feb 16
@Shavkat I have a break from dating at this moment. I will enjoy bachelor life for now.
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32760)
• Calgary, Alberta
29 Feb 16
@Shavkat I have a break from dating at this moment. I will enjoy bachelor life for now.
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
29 Feb 16
@CaptAlbertWhisker Take it from your experience my friend. In fact, it is true that this happens in reality.
@KnehKnah (3582)
• Philippines
29 Feb 16
No, if you love someone despite her flaws (unreasonable, inconsiderate, etc.), that's not being a martyr. That is being in-love.
Oh, you young people. You have a lot of knowing to do before you will finally say, "oh, gosh, I love the perfect person!"
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@KnehKnah (3582)
• Philippines
29 Feb 16
@Shavkat It takes time before one can understand what makes a relationship work. You have to have "more" (more understanding, more patience, more endurance, etc.). Without the more, you will not be able to prove you can withstand trials & difficulties.
In my age, I have not seen a marriage without any conflict or problem. We're human beings, that's why.
i can able to watch them for few minutes before i go to sleep.
yep! LOYALTY is the best policy! 
@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Feb 16
In fact there are many hard things to do when you have a relationship. Such as just saying I am sorry is not easy, too. And sometimes something is easy to say than done. For example, a man may say he can do everything for you. But then he may even don't want to wash the dishes after a meal
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Feb 16
You can't find a perfect relationship, both should undergo sacrifices, heartaches, patience and understanding. If you won't understand and listen your partner, everything you work for that relationship to grow, then it will end up nothing. You can't say that being understanding and listening to your partner is martyrdom, nope, you have to listen, sacrifice, have patience so that your love will prosper.
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