Such Misaligned Expectations
By Jeff Moffitt
@moffittjc (128833)
Gainesville, Florida
March 14, 2016 9:31pm CST
Over the course of the winter, when our aquatic operations at the city are slowed to a crawl, I take the opportunity to schedule time to interview all of my staff one-on-one. It's a great opportunity for me to learn more about the 100 or so employees that work for me.
The majority of my employees are college students. I have noticed an alarming trend among them, one where they have unrealistic expectations upon graduation from college.
Last week, I had asked one of my employees (who graduated from college a year ago), why he was still working for me as a lifeguard. He told me that with his business degree, he would accept nothing less than a starting salary of $75,000 a year! He has turned down multiple offers from companies who have offered him $40,000, $50,000, and even $60,000 for a starting salary! And he's not the first employee of mine who has thought like this!
When I graduated from college, I didn't expect to start at the top, commanding a top-dollar salary. I expected to get a decent job right out of college, but with the understanding that it was an entry-level position and that I would have to work hard to work my way up the corporate ladder.
Students these days think differently. They think they should start somewhere near the top when they graduate. Someone told me recently that it's the "entitlement" factor, where graduating students feel entitled to hefty salaries and high-level positions because they have college degrees.
Last time I checked, it doesn't quite work that way.
And in the meantime, my employee who is too good to accept a salary less than $75,000 a year is instead making $10.00 an hour lifeguarding at our swimming pools! Go figure.
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8 responses
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Mar 16
It isn't just the college students, it's the whole generation of students in grade and high school who feel entitled to whatever they want and expect it, and if they don't get it, throw a fit worthy of a toddler having a temper tantrum.
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@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
18 Mar 16
Haha, I didn't even think about that, but you're right...when they don't get their way they throw a temper tantrum! And they also complain! Boy, do they ever complain!
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@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
19 Mar 16
@just4him God help us all, right? LOL
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Mar 16
@moffittjc My grandson lived with me for a few years age 14-18. I had some pretty good insight into how teenagers act, which was a shock to me. I was in dreamland thinking children's attitudes hadn't really changed all that much from when I was in high school. It was a wake-up call and I've seen it on every level since that close up experience.
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@ElusiveButterfly (45941)
• United States
15 Mar 16
Everyone starts out somewhere. Sad when people think that just because they have a degree they should automatically qualify for a top paying job. Earn it and you'll get it.
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@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
15 Mar 16
I tell all of them that in the real world, experience trumps education every time. Not exactly true, but I at least let them think that. It makes them sweat a little bit, which is good for them. Maybe it will motivate them to go out and get the experience they need to move up the corporate ladder of success! Don't get me wrong, they are good kids and good workers, but they just think idealistically instead of realistically.
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@ElusiveButterfly (45941)
• United States
15 Mar 16
@moffittjc having worked in a high school guidance office, I know many that had those high expectations.
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@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
16 Mar 16
@ElusiveButterfly My only expectation when I graduated from college was to get a job...any job. Salary didn't matter, as long as someone offered me a job! And the funny thing is, when I was doing my internship, we had a major sewer backup in one of our buildings, and everyone was freaking out. I just calmly walked into the flooded bathroom, grabbed a plunger, a mop and a bucket, and spent the next 2 hours cleaning up that mess. Nobody asked me to do it, but it needed to get done, because the smell was horrible! The next day, the guy who was the head of the company called me into his office and said I was immediately hired! I didn't even know what the position I was hired for, or the salary, but I said yes! lol
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@snowy22315 (208797)
• United States
15 Mar 16
I think I would let the guy know not to expect a huge starting salary on his first job out of school. It never works that way!
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@snowy22315 (208797)
• United States
15 Mar 16
They will be disillusioned soon enough.
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@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
15 Mar 16
@snowy22315 I'm beginning to think they are disillusioned already! I guess the one good thing they've got gong for them is that I have trained them to be good, hard workers, a trait that is hard to find these days. So, once they get the visions of grandeur out of their heads and realize that no one is going to pay them $75,000 a year right out of college, they should have no problems impressing companies with their strong work ethic.
@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
15 Mar 16
Trust me, I try to reason with every one of them. I go through this same situation with every one of my employees who are college students. They don't get it. They think they are owed something.

@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 16
Ah, they are the entitled generation. They deserve nothing less than more than what they're worth. Surely the more he holds out for a high wage the harder it will be for him to get any job in the profession he aspires to ... any future employer will question why he didn't go straight into employment if there are lots of jobs available.
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@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
16 Mar 16
You nailed it! He is a member of the entitled generation! They want everything handed to them on a silver platter. It disgusts me! And to think this generation is the future of the world? My goodness, we're all in trouble then!
@JESSY3236 (22247)
• United States
15 Mar 16
I know. A woman (older than me) I worked with many years ago told me she has a bachelor's degree in Biology. (I don't know if that's true) But she's not doing anything with it. She wants to go into retail. (by the way, I was working at a place where they place some people with jobs)
I couldn't believe it. I told my uncle about it and he said that she might have had a nervous breakdown.
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@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
16 Mar 16
I find it interesting to see how many college graduates end up going into different fields than what their degree was for. It's like, "Hey, I just spent a hundred grand in college tuition to get a degree in thermonuclear dynamics, but I think I'm just going to work at Taco Bell as a night shift manager, because I decided I don't like my chosen profession!"
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@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
18 Mar 16
@JESSY3236 I think people should follow their dreams, even if it means doing something different than what was studied in school, or different from the degree received. My best friend spent tens of thousands of dollars in tuition to go to college for a mechanical engineering degree, and then decided he wanted to sell real estate, which he loves.
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@JESSY3236 (22247)
• United States
16 Mar 16
@moffittjc Chris has a bachelor's degree in psychology and he wants to own a dojo (martial arts school). I do have an associates degree in paralegal studies. I did want to be a paralegal. It's just hard in finding a paralegal job in this little town.

@JudyEv (381928)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Mar 16
I'm wondering if you said anything or if you just let it be. It seems a bad attitude really, doesn't it? Makes no sense at all. I mean, what's wrong with $60,000 for 12 months then asking for a raise or moving on? At least he'd have something other than 'lifeguard' on his CV.
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@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
15 Mar 16
I try to talk to them about it. They just tune me out, because they don't want to hear the truth. They live in a fantasy world where they think they can finish school and immediately be the CEO of a company.
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@JudyEv (381928)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Mar 16
@moffittjc I can understand this. It's difficult to tell the young sometimes. They just don't want to know.
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@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
16 Mar 16
@JudyEv One problem with today's society is that everyone speaks politically correct, for fear of offending someone or hurting their feelings. The result is that these young people today are coddled to the point where they have no concept of how things really are. They need someone to tell them like it really is!
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@moffittjc (128833)
• Gainesville, Florida
15 Mar 16
That would make too much sense. I'm beginning to think that our colleges and universities aren't doing a very good job of preparing these students for the real world. They need to help the students understand that--even with a college degree--they still need to start at the bottom and work hard to make themselves promotable in the future.
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
29 Apr 19
@moffittjc That's very interesting but kinda worrying that many people think like this. Things aren't just handed to you like that because of a degree. Like you said you have to work your way up. I don't mean this in a horrible way but a laminated piece of paper and no matter how hard you worked for that, you still need to keep working hard to go further. That degree doesn't all of a sudden mean you're successful! It means you did well to get that degree but it takes more work than that in the next phase whatever that may be.
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