To sign or not to?
By Reine25
@Lucky15 (37391)
Philippines
April 6, 2016 9:09pm CST
P.S. This has been open up or discussed before but i want to share what i watched last night.
Does she have a choice?
She has actually.
To either had the papers signed or go back home.to the Philippines.
Watched "90 day fiancee" on TLC last night, i felt sad for one woman, her name is nikki.
Nikki is from Cebu, Philippines and she is 19 years old. With her fiancee, aged 59, she had gone to US with a fiancee visa.
Age for me is not a question, i know some will.
With their wedding coming, their relationship is being put to the test.
Her fiancee not thinking of having a baby which she wanted, to the wedding dress she found and he told her it quite expensive (wedding dress is $2300).
With the prenup, her fiancee explained, what he earns will be his and what she earns will be hers. And if she won't sign the papers, no wedding will happen and she will be going back to the Philippines.
I am okay with signing a prenup, but i was thinking of Nikki's case.
What do you think?
13 people like this
13 responses
@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
7 Apr 16
I can't see any kind of good end coming from this relationship. I think she should get on a plane and go home.
3 people like this
@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
7 Apr 16
I have not watched this.
I think Nikki has been in for quite a shock with this guy.
Yeah not age she already knew that.
But I think she will prevail if she signs it but read it carefully, that is if she still wants to marry him. It is his way or the highway so to speak..now if is up to her.
But if she does not want to marry him she cant stay here?
2 people like this
@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
7 Apr 16
@Lucky15 It is an awful mess some of these lovely women come to over here in this place. They think they are coming to a better life, but no.
1 person likes this
@Lucky15 (37391)
• Philippines
8 Apr 16
@TiarasOceanView they thinknof the..grass is greener. Sigh
1 person likes this
@Tampa_girl7 (54716)
• United States
7 Apr 16
I would be hurt if I was asked to sign one.
2 people like this
@brokenbee (11937)
• Philippines
7 Apr 16
I don't know the whole story.
But if ever they really love each other, then it's okay to sign the papers. But if she will just marry the man because of his money, I think it is better to come back home.
2 people like this
@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
7 Apr 16
I think the man is trying to play it safe. He doesn't want to get backstabbed if she doesn't really love him (due to the age difference). And if they get divorced she may half of his assets/cash and maybe even alimony. But ultimately the question is - Does she truly love him or want a different life for her in the US?
1 person likes this
@epiffanie (11327)
• Australia
7 Apr 16
I will pack up and go.. But if I was a 19 years old , marrying a 59 years old won't be a part of the plan ..
1 person likes this
@PainsOnSlate (21845)
• Canada
7 Apr 16
I think if I was Nikki I'd be on my way home to find someone who would really love me, let me have a baby and have money (just kidding about the money, when I got married I married an older man (by 5 years) and he had no bags of money. We do now, because we worked for it...
@JamesHxstatic (29410)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Apr 16
If there are any children born of this lopsided union, the man should be responsible for their support at least. Maybe he is a bit lecherous?
1 person likes this
@JESSY3236 (22244)
• United States
7 Apr 16
I haven't seen the show, but I think that is too old for a 19 year old. That is a 40 year difference. My fiance is 4 years older than me.
1 person likes this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
7 Apr 16
That is good if both of them are well-off; not good if the man is rich and the woman is not. I think both should have their own money to brag about, because inevitably, a prenup is a must.
1 person likes this
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
8 Apr 16
@Lucky15 so this means she agreed on the prenup. maybe she is also just into the green card thingy
1 person likes this
