I got my answer without asking when he is moving out
@shaggin (74987)
United States
April 15, 2016 2:00pm CST
I texted my man saying he better not do the bachelor auction which is tonight.
He replied back that he is going to bed early tonight and after work he is going to sign a lease at a place where he will be renting and moving out of my house at the end of the month.
I guess I got my answer of when he is moving without me having to ask. I feel the way he responded was hurtful. Especially after I was up until 2 am waiting to see him get home safe from the bar.
My kids will be home in a few minutes so I am trying not to cry and fall apart. I feel sick to my stomach.
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@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
16 Apr 16
I am sorry to hear this. I thought the issues have already been settled, since you mentioned about him in your previous discussions. So, he is still moving out.
If you want to cry, just cry. I think it'd be better for you.
Just remember, we are all here to support you, though we can't be there for you. You still have your sister too! I am sure she is always nearby.
Praying for you. 
@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
20 Apr 16
@shaggin I always heard that it's actually more difficult when you can't cry. I truly hope this will pass very soon, and you don't need to suffer so much. I am not sure if finding more activities to do, doing exercises or meeting other people will help. Just try whatever can make you feel better.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
18 Apr 16
That is a huge problem that I have the stress and pressure build up and I am usually unable to cry. I am really sad today just realizing how things are going and how I had such hopes it would work out. Things were fine and then just bam out of the blue hes moving out. He never did come home this night after he said he was going to bed early. I wrote a post about it. I was so upset I couldn't get out of bed all weekend. I have to push myself to get up at noon today. I got the dishes done and started a load of laundry.
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@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
After all these years, just like that. I mean what the hell he was thinking? He got lucky to have a wife and kids and this is what he does in return? At least you got your kids, they are more important than him. I'm pretty sure some day it will HIT his head and will have the biggest regret in his life.
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
15 Apr 16
Well we were together for a year then apart for a year and then back together for about 14 months now. I am not his wife just a girlfriend. I'm not even sure he considers me close enough to call me his girlfriend. He has a son with another woman he was with years ago. I have two children by my late husband.
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@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
@shaggin Oh, okay I thought you are married. That's sad because he kinda takes you for granted and make you wait until early morning. Maybe he's not worth the guy for you.
@Hate2Iron (15724)
• Canada
15 Apr 16
I am sooo sorry that you are going through this. You must be hurting pretty bad. Sending some hugs your way!
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
18 Apr 16
I am terribly upset about how careless and inconsiderate he has been. I was in bed the whole weekend so sick with depression I couldn't do anything. I feel a little better now. I haven't barely ate in three days. I had a banana and orange today. My face is white where it usually is quite pink which bugs me. I don't think if its from not having the coffee which irritates my skin or if I am just pale from not eating.
@HebrewGreekStudies (1646)
• Canada
16 Apr 16
I hope that you feel better:(, please be kind to yourself with the goodness that you deserve:(
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
19 Apr 16
I was looking through messages I have written to a friend of mine over the past year. I was looking for a specific one about when I thought he might have cheated on me but I must have deleted the conversation. Anyway reading through the messages reminds me of why I will not want to be with him after he moves out. I guess I will just have to keep going over those messages to remind myself of the reasons it won't work out.
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@Ruby3881 (1963)
• Canada
15 Apr 16
So sorry you're going through rough times with him! It's got to be even harder because of the kids....
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
15 Apr 16
Well my daughter does not like him or his son so she is looking forward to him moving out. I told her today when he is leaving and she was hoping it would be sooner. I am probably the only on in the house who is sad about the situation.
