I'm No Longer Invisible On Facebook -- At Least Not Today

@bagarad (14283)
Paso Robles, California
May 8, 2016 4:08am CST
Do you ever feel invisible on Facebook? Do your friends hardly ever indicate in any way they've seen your posts? That's what often happens to me. I get an occasional "like," and once in a blue moon someone will make a comment, but other than that, silence. Today I found out how to change all that. Post something expressing an opinion about the coming American election candidates. I posted what I thought was a rather bland comment about how establishment Republicans all pressured Trump to sign a pledge to support the eventual party nominee and not to run third party if he lost the primaries. He finally signed, as did all the other candidates. I posted that I thought it ironic that everyone pressured Trump to sign and that after everyone signed, at least two of the establishment candidates are now saying they will not support Trump as they promised. They pressured him to sign and signed themselves when they thought he could never win the nomination. Now it is inconvenient for them to honor their word. Some of them are organizing to run an independent candidate with the aim of deliberately helping Hillary win. People are showing their true colors and how much their word can be trusted. That kind of stirred up a hornet's nest on Facebook. I had even forgotten I'd started the discussion , but I saw all these comments on the post. Oddly enough, it was one of my close friends who is the most anti-Trump. She knew Trump was not my first choice, but I never expected her views to be this extreme. It was my writer friends that agreed with me most. I'm please to report that even with the wide gulf between our viewpoints, no one was rude. They are, after all, my friends. They know how to discuss ideas without personal attacks. Personal attacks never won a person over. It's too bad more political discussions can't be more civil and respectful.
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@Gina145 (3949)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
9 May 16
I've just learnt to accept the fact that I'm invisible most of the time. I read what others share about politics but I don't comment and I don't post about politics myself. I just don't like to get involved with controversial subjects.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
10 May 16
It's sometimes interesting to see what others think, as long as everyone can remain respectful of the rights of others to have a different opinion.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
10 May 16
@Gina145 I tend to shut up, too, when I know someone known for trolling or disrespect has started a conversation. That's one reason I left a PostLoop group.
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@Gina145 (3949)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
10 May 16
@bagarad That's true. I just don't want to expose myself to possible criticism. I'm a bit sensitive to having others question my views.
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@LeaPea2417 (40052)
• Toccoa, Georgia
16 May 16
This election sure does get the comments on Facebook! People
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
18 May 16
They sure do talk about politics.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
19 May 16
@LeaPea2417 I'm posting a political post I wrote about the importance of local elections to both my FB pages tomorrow. I hope I don't lose friends over it. I think it's pretty objective, even those I did mention two local candidates I'm voting for and the reasons why. That's just a small part of the posts.
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@LeaPea2417 (40052)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 May 16
@bagarad Sometimes I can't help myself but comment on some political posts on Facebook.
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@peavey (16936)
• United States
9 May 16
All you have to do is get into politics, that's for sure! Trump wasn't my first choice either, but unless something else comes along, I will support him. Politics is a big con game and I think it's getting worse.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
9 May 16
It's a shame. When we started with so many good candidates my question was how I'd ever be able to decide on a favorite.
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@peavey (16936)
• United States
10 May 16
@bagarad I felt the same way. I don't really feel as if we wound up with the best of the bunch, but it is what it is, so they say.
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@LadyDuck (502675)
• Italy
8 May 16
Facebook is sometimes mysterious, it seems that nobody is there, when suddenly old friends leave comments on your wall.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
9 May 16
I sometimes think Facebook is partly responsible in filtering whom we see all the time.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
9 May 16
@LadyDuck Usually, but occasionally I get one that surprises me.
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@LadyDuck (502675)
• Italy
9 May 16
@bagarad Yes, I am sure they are responsible, I have noticed that you always see the same posts.
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@boiboing (13147)
• Northampton, England
8 May 16
On Facebook it's often the case that you find yourself thinking "Is there anybody out there?" and then you run into old friends and discover that even though they never liked or commented, they read and processed everything you'd written. I know that not everybody shows their activity but it doesn't mean they aren't there.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
8 May 16
That's been my feeling, too. That's why I haven't stopped posting.
@thelme55 (79323)
• Germany
8 May 16
You are here as well. I can relate to that invisibility on fb that is why I sometimes posted what made my friends commented. I deleted some friends who I thought was just checking on me.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
8 May 16
i just put out what I hope will interest my friends, and if it doesn't, so be it. I delete only those who are rude or engage in personal attacks against my family and friends.