How women ruined my life. Lol
By david alicea
@davidalicea100 (3495)
Merced, California
May 14, 2016 8:04pm CST
I work out at the gym a lot, so this has become a problem for me because i also help people train to lose weight and get in shape. Some people have asked me how come i have mostly male clients.
It is because i help train athletes, not to sound sexiest but training a man is different than training a woman. My other reason is because most of todays generation of woman are scandalous lol.
They come to the gym dressing very skanky booting bouncing everywhere, or they shirts are to small. This is a problem because some guys look or even say something we are called a pervert.
This is why woman have ruined my job and life, because of how they act. I do not want to help a female get in shape or train them because of fear of losing my job for saying anything or looking.
Some of them have lied on my male coworkers because they had a disagreement on training which caused him to lose his job because the female lied and said he was coming on to her.
Now he is going to court and might face sexuall conduct charges in court because of this. I do not understand she was wearing spandex pants that said juciy on her butt and was wearing a bikini top and was at the gym.
I never have my shirt off in public or even in the summer time, so i dont see how hard it is ro cover up. This is how woman ruined my job and life, im nervous to talk to females in person and i lose out on money because i refuse to train woman, even though they have asked me.
So what are your thoughts about this?
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18 responses
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104630)
• United States
15 May 16
Obviously, not all women are like this. I know that you realize this. However, it's sad that the majority who want to train, are also the same who want the attention but then get all uppity about it when they get it.
Women like to blame men etc, and I've seen an increase of posts around the internet about how women are victimized. I'm of two minds about it. I can understand (from a woman's perspective) dressing comfortably / somewhat revealing because it makes them feel good to get the attention. However, I also feel as if they need to know that what they wear says a lot about what type of person they are, even if they don't intend for it to.
I guess what I am saying is I side with the men on this, though I do know there are some right sleazeball men who deserve reprimand from how they treat a lady, regardless of what they are wearing. Really it's a case by case situation, but if a woman plans to be fitness trained by a man, then she needs to show herself and him respect by wearing comfortable, yet non revealing clothes.
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@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
@ScribbledAdNauseum I stay covered up i dont even wear tanktops i dont show off my body i dont see why it is so hard not to lol
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@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
@ScribbledAdNauseum There is no dress code which i don't understand because we have a day care in our gym
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104630)
• United States
15 May 16
@davidalicea100 Sad really. I don't blame you for not wanting to train them. IS there no way to have a dress code? They have to wear name brand / non labelled active wear?
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@puddleglum (1380)
• United States
15 May 16
Personally, I believe women should avoid dressing in overly tight or revealing clothing out of respect for themselves and everyone else. When I take the time to exercise (which is seldom, unfortunately) I prefer loose fitting clothing that covers.
I'm sorry this issue creates a problem for you, but it's good to have some dialogue about it. Maybe it will change things one day.
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@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
@puddleglum It is done on purpose for a reaction if you only saw in person you would be shocked. Its like are you here to workout or here to cause trouble.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
18 May 16
@davidalicea100
Then that is the best thing for you to do
@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
These younger girls all they do is set up men now.
@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
Its like you dress like that on purpose you know your going to get attention
@Lolaze (5093)
• St. Louis, Missouri
15 May 16
@davidalicea100 *puts on spaghetti strap top and bootie shorts* You perv! You're staring at me!
@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
17 May 16
Do house calls at night lol.
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@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
17 May 16
@trivia79 I bet you would lol.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
17 May 16
@davidalicea100 oh i forgot! i'm not fond of gym haha 
@polyxena (2628)
• Sturgis, Michigan
15 May 16
I see no problem with the fact that you don't want to deal with women at work. Even as a woman I don't like dealing with other women because of that issue. Other women drive me nuts. I mean I can see why you lose out on money, but at the same time I don't think it's fair. I hope it gets better for you David.
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@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
@polyxena Trainers get paid when people sign up with us, so it means i cant just sit on my butt all day. We even have a pool which makes it even worse.
@polyxena (2628)
• Sturgis, Michigan
16 May 16
@davidalicea100 Nah, not cool. I like my clothes too much. lol
@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
@MGjhaud I should wear spandex pants that say juicy on my butt, see how others like it and respond lol then they might understand what I mean lol.
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@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
I tried talking to the owner but it was no use.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
15 May 16
You got a good point there. And it's awful. I never go to a gym anyway. I go to yoga classes and our instructor is gay lol! I don't like male instructors as well.
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@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
I tried yoga it is hard my instructor was also gay i dont care because he was 50 and could move and bend like a ninja he was very atheletic was why i went to him. I started gaining size and started loosing flexability in my body so thats why. Lol
@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 May 16
I dress like a mother so my attire at the gym would be sweat pants and a t-shirt. Lol. Nothing showing off my body in any way so I know not all women are like that. The ones that are like that you could maybe tell them if your willing not to show any body part I would be able to train you. If your not willing to do that then no I'm sorry I cannot.
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
19 May 16
@davidalicea100 Does it matter what they think your status is? I would rather that than to get fired...
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@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
I have told them that, they call me gay lol
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@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
19 May 16
@LovingMyBabies I just tell them im not gay im just not into ho's lol
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
15 May 16
are there women training men there?
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
15 May 16
@davidalicea100 would you mind being trained by a woman?
@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
@hereandthere Yes there are women training men but only on certain things. Mainly diet and weight loss zumba yoga and cardio.
@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
Yea the women staff there are dressed like me shirt and pants.
@Letranknight2015 (51568)
• Philippines
15 May 16
Well, that's why you are working with male instead of female clients, it's probably a lot easier.
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@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
@Letranknight2015 yea it is for my own safety, it has ruined my social life.
@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
15 May 16
@Lucky15 yup u get my point in what iam saying lol
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@davidalicea100 (3495)
• Merced, California
25 Aug 16
@AkoPinay i want to see than lol
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@mommaj (23112)
• United States
15 May 16
LOL. It must be nice to work in a young trendy gym. HAHAHA I worked out at a gym with old people. What do you expect? I live in Florida HAHAHA.
Women are vindictive and evil. 
Being one I can say that with certainty because they are always out to get someone, or out do someone. 
Being one I can say that with certainty because they are always out to get someone, or out do someone. 
@LadyDuck (462004)
• Switzerland
15 May 16
How sad! I am glad that not all women are like the one you describe, but I know that there are many. They are provoking and if men say something they feel offended and harassed. What a stupid way to be. You should ask to place a surveillance camera where you work, so you can prove that you do nothing wrong.
@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
15 May 16
Well, I'm a woman and I won't never ruin your life. Not all women are like that for there are lots of women who are decent and conservative.
Not all women are like that for there are lots of women who are decent and conservative.
@CrazyAnimaLady (279)
• United States
15 May 16
What the hell kinda women go to your gym? Mine's mostly mums and old men.
