Alzhimers is so cruel

United States
May 16, 2016 12:58am CST
My last post triggered a lot of memories of going through Alzhimers with my daddy. It was heartbreaking when he wouldn't know who I was, I'd usually go in the other room and cry. I wouldn't let him see my tears, because I didn't want to upset him. I learned to cherish the times he did know who I was. My daddy and I had a special father, daughter relationship. I didn't get to see him as often as I would have liked, because we lived in different states. But Sunday evenings was our time, I'd call him every Sunday, and we both looked forward to our talks. Even as his Alzhimers progressed, he always waited for my call, even if he didn't know who I was at that moment. I had set up a reminder on my cell to call, and it took me a few years after he had passes on, before I stopped getting the reminders, actually they stopped when I got a new phone. I still miss him every day. Alzhimers may have stole his mind, but I still had his heart.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
16 May 16
My mom is battling Alzhimers too. I am shocked last week when we visited her that he already not knew me. Yes! It is heartbreaking.
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• United States
16 May 16
I'm so sorry your family is having to go through this, my heart goes out to you ((hugs)).
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
17 May 16
@lilnana1111 It is a painful thing that all of us must admit. All we need is to have a lot of patience for her. Thanks for the hugs!
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@mom210 (9170)
• United States
19 May 16
It is a horrible disease, I am so sorry that you had to go through this. My Dad passed away at 54 from heart disease. It will be 20 years ago this December and not a day goes by that I do not miss him.
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• United States
19 May 16
Thank you, I'm sorry for your loss too.
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@MGjhaud (23228)
• Philippines
16 May 16
my daddy forget a lot of things but he doesnt have the disease. still, it breaks my heart seeing him sometimes frustrated while trying to remember whered he put his watch, his medicines and all that..
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• United States
16 May 16
I can relate to your daddy's frustration, I'm so forgetful and it gets worse as time goes on.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
16 May 16
Alzhimers is a terrible disease. Sorry you lost your Dad.
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• United States
16 May 16
Thank you, yes it is a terrible disease.
@LadyDuck (502653)
• Italy
16 May 16
Alzheimer's disease is a thief, he stills the memories leaving a blank mind. It is so sad that there is not a cure.
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• United States
16 May 16
You described it perfectly.
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1 Jun 16
it is such a cruel disease, very sad and hard on everyone involved