It will be 7 years tomorrow.

me and my mother on my first Holy Communion.
@ridingbet (66854)
Philippines
June 11, 2016 10:57pm CST
It is the National day of celebration here in my country- the Philippine Independence Day is commemorated nationwide. But this day is also a sorrowful day for my family… Seven years ago on this day, I brought my mother to the hospital because of vomiting and hypertension. She was confined with the tentative diagnosis of gastro-enteritis (which was not right because she vomited just twice, and no loose motions too). Dawn of the 13th, my mother left us to join our father in Heaven. She just slept, with no fight against death, but she talked the gift of tongues. I was with her throughout the night and until she breathed her last. I was the one who decided to stop the resuscitative measures. It is with deep sorrow and sadness to lose our parents, but I know they are there in heaven watching over us. The white dress I wore in my first Holy communion was sewn by my mother, a great seamstress.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
Was she a seamstress ? I like her dress . It's a classic style hat can be worn until this day . Look at you , so innocent and so shy looking , contrary to your very naughty disposition now .
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
16 Jun 16
@ridingbet I went for a second look at your picture when you said that , and indeed you seem to be thinking something naughty too , because of your impish smile. So, even as a child , you were already naughty .
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
16 Jun 16
hahaha! we age my lady, and i am no longer naive and innocent of this world. wahahaha! but maybe i was smiling because i was thinking of something naughty?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
16 Jun 16
@SIMPLYD yes i was a naughty kid. but scared of earthworms. looking closely, the scar between my eyebrows can be sen, right?
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
12 Jun 16
I'm sure your mother is still watching over you now.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
yes she does my friend. today is her 7th year in heaven, and i went to church this morning.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
@ridingbet That's nice. Attending mass is the best you can do to remember your mother and offering it for her intention.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
@sunrisefan i waited for the 6:30 mass to start because that was the time scheduled for her and my father.
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@MGjhaud (23228)
• Philippines
12 Jun 16
aw im so sorry. i cant imagine my life without my parents.
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@MGjhaud (23228)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
i love them more than anybody in this world.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
@MGjhaud that is good.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
that is why love them while they are still with you my friend.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Jun 16
I'm sorry for your loss, but it's good to know she's in heaven with your father. That's a beautiful dress. My mother was also a good seamstress and sewed most of our clothes when I was growing up.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Jun 16
@ridingbet That's wonderful.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
Thanks. Actually all my uniforms in school were sewn by her, from elementary to college. She is there now in heaven and they are our guardian angels.
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@brokenbee (11937)
• Philippines
12 Jun 16
That's a beautiful dress...
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
Thanks. So hard to live without our parents so while your parents are still around show them your love
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
@brokenbee thanks
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@brokenbee (11937)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
@ridingbet awwww okay, Ate..
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• New Delhi, India
12 Jun 16
The most brightest star in the sky, hey that's your Mom.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
yes i think so too, but i also have my father so probably the 2 brightest stars at night are my parents watching over us.
• New Delhi, India
13 Jun 16
@ridingbet yup. See both are there happy giving us their blessings.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
@ModernDayWriter i agree with you
@jstory07 (148734)
• Roseburg, Oregon
12 Jun 16
Sorry for your loss.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
That is okay my dear. We already accepted that both my parents are already in heaven.
@sofssu (23660)
13 Jun 16
We have one great hope.. to be reunited with our loved ones in heaven. I am sure she is rejoicing with the angels and the saints in heaven though you miss her here.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
That is true my friend. I wait for that day that we will be together but ihope not now, not now yet
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
12 Jun 16
Sorry that you lost your Mom but it is so good that you were with her, she was not alone.
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@LadyDuck (502491)
• Italy
12 Jun 16
My mother was also a good seamstress, she sewed all my dresses when I was a kid. This white dress is beautiful.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
Thanks! Mothers want the best for their children.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
You look very angelic in that photo. Credits to mom.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
Thanks. I have the attitude of my mother but i look more like my father.
@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
12 Jun 16
Sorry my friend for your loss. We are here to be your friends, so take care of yourself my dear BFF
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
Thanks my dear friend.
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@Shiva49 (28385)
• Singapore
12 Jun 16
Sorry to hear of the loss. I am sure she is showering her blessings on you - siva
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
that is true. even in its simplest way, i know she is constantly guiding and watching over us.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
12 Jun 16
So sad indeed, but your mother is surely guiding you always (so they say). You are lucky to had listened to her last words.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
yes my friend. in fact, i bought her favorite food for her last meal; i prepared her coffee with rice as her breakfast, and i even inserted an intravenous fluid (2 bottles) in the same week, because she felt so weak that time.
@Lucky15 (37391)
• Philippines
12 Jun 16
Sorry to hear your loss ;(
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
13 Jun 16
Thanks. It has been 7 and 19 years since my mother and father left us.
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