Do you have the habit of making the life of people you dont like miserable?

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If I don't like someone because we don't vibe I simply ignore him or her. and most of the time, I don't even think about them but I don't mind if they would talk to me or not because it's perfectly fine; it's called being civil. And I expect that if someone don't like me then they should just be civil or just be indifferent. But why is that so difficult for some people? I noticed, that when people don't like you for no plausible reason, they dig deep into their emotions and try to find out why they don't like you. Sometimes, they awaken and realize there's no reason why they shouldn't like you and sometimes befriends you. But oftentimes, when they can't find the reason why they don't like you they often end up seeing things and finding reasons to hate you more even when you don't do anything bad against them. They notice your every move, they talk behind your back because of something you said, they feel a strong need to hate you and have others turn against you and all that for no reason at all. Why is that?