I Went to My High School Reunion

Otis Orchards, Washington
June 26, 2016 7:51pm CST
Last night I attended my high school senior class reunion. Several people made comments about who all these old people were. Well, they were us–our high school graduating class. Actually it was opened to everyone so a couple of people brought their mothers. And a few people from other classes at our high school came. Some of our class brought their children and grandchildren. And of course some brought their wives who didn’t go to our high school. So there were people there that not everyone would have known. It was a potluck so most people brought something to eat. I took potato salad. There was also lots of, “Who are you?” going on. It had been fifteen years since our last reunion. Some people I recognized right away, some I remembered their faces but couldn’t put a name to them. Others I didn’t recognize at all until they told me their names, or I heard them tell someone their names. Once I knew their names I knew right off the bat who they were. Most people knew who I was but a few had to ask. One thing that struck me a bit funny was some of the woman who shun me in school were so friendly to me I could hardly believe it. Well, “shun” maybe a little strong so I’ll say they rarely spoke to me in high school. Our class was one of the biggest graduating classes from our high school at that time. There were seventy-two students in our class. Only about twenty showed up at the reunion. Since graduating we have lost six students. A group of students who formed a band back in high school, called The Public Eye, played. A couple of the members didn’t show up though. There was a girl in our class that had sung with the band but I didn’t remember that. She was one who had past away. I was dragged out onto the floor to dance a couple of times. Not too many dance too often. But one of our classmates wanted to get all of us out on the floor at least a couple times. So she went around pulling us out onto the floor. Anyway, everyone said they were having fun. I enjoyed myself. The only sad part was not having more of our classmates show up. Many voiced a desire to have another reunion in five years. At our last reunion this was brought up and it ended up being fifteen years instead.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
27 Jun 16
Oh wow - so you did go to your reunion!! I'm so glad you enjoyed yourself and they dragged you onto the dance floor too ! It's nice to be remembered after all these years. Hubby recently got a reunion invite - I think it's going to be at some hotel that's not even local to the high school - and I think it was over $150 per person. Eek. On Facebook, I heard people from my class were grumbling that no one was planning our 30th reunion this year (that's fine with me!).
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
28 Jun 16
@RichardMeister I wish they kept things simple here - I don't know why any of our reunions have to be so expensive and at some fancy schmancy place - sounds like a formal. I didn't go to our last one for other reasons, but even then they charged a lot of money too. Wow, how did you raise all that money in high school and continue to have it? I wouldn't be surprised if any funds we had were all used up well before we even graduated! A lake or park sounds more "intimate" - and I would think everyone would be relaxed and truly enjoy the moment and company - especially when they didn't have to pay an arm and a leg to be there.
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
28 Jun 16
@much2say Our class opened a bank account with our class officers able to get into the account. I think we all agree at the start of our senior year to raise money for a reunion. I do remember we had a chunk of money in that bank account on the last day of school. This reunion was held in a grange hall. I would be surprised if they paid more than $100 for the rent of it for the night.
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
27 Jun 16
I would have never went if they charged anything like that. Personally, I think very few would have went if they charged that. I think our first class reunion was paid for out of money we raised while in high school. I think our second one may have been paid with some of that money as well. It was at a lake. The next one was at a park so there were no expenses. This is the only one I can remember them asking for donations.
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• United States
27 Jun 16
I am glad to hear of your positive experience, I say this because, a few people have tried to put them together for our small class. Many of us did not attend as there is always a fundraiser attached to it. Now i don't mind to donate on my own terms, but I do not want to have to raise money for an organization to bring to a class reunion. Last time they were collecting clothes and some other things, and I just felt like I would rather come, pay for the dinner and see old classmates. The other part of not going is I haven't seen most of these people in over 30 years, if they wanted to stay in touch, don't you think they would have? They had one for any class but it was on Fathers day and I was not able to attend that one. Maybe one day , when it is just about getting together, I might go, they wanted everyone to wear white one year. I don't have white in my wardrobe, ....
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
27 Jun 16
Our reunions have never asked us to do any of those things. We were just asked to bring something for the potluck and donate whatever cash we wanted. We were told the donation would go to pay the cost of the reunion and any leftover would go to a charity. I don't think I'd want to have to take clothes or be demanded to pay a certain amount. Nor would I like to be told what I had to wear. I feel a little different about people not staying in touch since many have moved out of the area.
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• United States
27 Jun 16
@RichardMeister , I like the way your reunion was handled, much better than the way ours have been done
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
27 Jun 16
@CookieMonster46 I liked it too, and I think everyone else liked it as well.
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@suziecat7 (3349)
• Asheville, North Carolina
30 Jun 16
I'm glad you enjoyed your reunion. Like Lenore, it is something I would rather never revisit.
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
30 Jun 16
I had some good friends in high school so I went mainly to see them.
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@sallypup (69183)
• Centralia, Washington
28 Jun 16
Way to go. Sounds like fun though that scenario is nightmarish to me. I wasn't delighted to be in high school.
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
28 Jun 16
High school wasn't a fun thing for me but the student wasn't my problem.