Today is 13 years married!
By UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31962)
Wausau, Wisconsin
July 8, 2016 6:55pm CST
So as people know already that today marks my 13 years of marriage. Not enthused but I deal. We were married at 4:20pm in the afternoon on this day back in 2004. I am still planning on leaving him but still setting myself up and right now I have been apartment searching. He's cheated, lives like a hoarder and is a hoarder. He lies a lot too. I will always love him because he is baby daddy but I am done trying since he won't listen. He has only made me dinner so far which was okay but I wish things were better. Oh well, I have to move on from the bad and look out for me and my son. 13 years has been enough for me. A lot of people we know already know what is going on. Sadly, I have given him too many chances to straighten out. 
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@melissa1024 (2456)
• Beckley, West Virginia
9 Jul 16
I wish you well. You have to do what is best for you and the child. From what you have posted before you have tried to make it work, sometimes it is best to just walk away. If you need someone to lend a listening ear I am here for you.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
9 Jul 16
Thanks. It is well needed and I could use the support
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
10 Jul 16
@melissa1024 I know you are. You say that on Facebook too lol
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@melissa1024 (2456)
• Beckley, West Virginia
9 Jul 16
@carebear29 Your welcome. Any time you need to talk I am here to listen.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
10 Jul 16
I hope things go well when I do leave. Thanks
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@dodo19 (47133)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
10 Jul 16
@carebear29 I'll keep my fingers crossed.
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@sherryericha (1806)
• Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
7 Aug 16
Good luck as you start your new life.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
9 Jul 16
I wish he would be the one to leave and move on. He just don't know how to get over me
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
9 Jul 16
2004? that would make it only 12 years.
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@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
9 Jul 16
I would say congrats but you've pretty much tuned out of this marriage. Sorry hun. Hope life treats you better.
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@Macarrosel (7498)
• Philippines
9 Jul 16
Are you still living together? Well, that's part of married life. Too many ups and downs. I can relate of what you feel to your husband. But I never give up and tried to considered all his worst faults and failures. Now, we're married for 25 years and we still love each other. We were done of all those quarrels and misunderstandings and we are well adjusted now. I hope you can still hold the rope until the end and you won't give up. Just my thoughts.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
10 Jul 16
Yes we are still living together.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
10 Jul 16
Yeah, depressed but I will be okay
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
12 Jul 16
Thanks. He needs help but won't do it
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@Coldfront (76)
• Suzhou, China
9 Jul 16
I don't know what should i say. No matter what, take care of yourself !
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@snowy22315 (171153)
• United States
8 Jul 16
Yes, sometimes you have to know when to throw in the towel. My ex is still in my life, but I wish he wasn't. He is hard to deal with.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
9 Jul 16
Yes but I am afraid of his attitude when he comes home to nothing
