Problems Not Our Problems
@cacay1 (83220)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
July 31, 2016 9:04am CST
Why can’t we avoid problems? Sometimes we wonder why such just occur instantly.
We also want to find reasons why be affected with problems of others. In a family for example, a sibling may not be free from problems if members at home seem in trouble. The root causes are money, infidelity, sickness, broken family, broken marriage, and broken love affair. You , having no problem will be affected for you can’t dare to see any member in the family broke, jobless, debt troubled, and heartbroken .
It will be too bad to sing and dance while they are in trouble. They need sympathizers and shoulders to lean on. How all people on earth want perfect life, perfect society and perfect love.
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It will be too bad to sing and dance while they are in trouble. They need sympathizers and shoulders to lean on. How all people on earth want perfect life, perfect society and perfect love.
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15 responses
@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
31 Jul 16
Because problems are an unavoidable fact of life and all you can do is try to reduce the number.
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@RasmaSandra (73802)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
31 Jul 16
@cacay1 the best you can hope for is having a shoulder to cry on and providing a shoulder also.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 16
@RasmaSandra That is the best thing to console a problematic person.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 Jul 16
@JohnRoberts, yes they spice of life and from them we will become stronger and fighter for life.
@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
31 Jul 16
We can help each other through the turmoils of life...it is all we can do my friend.
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@martinnshann (340)
• Bahrain
1 Aug 16
One thing is for sure, there is no such thing as perfect. Problems come and go,all people are experiencing different problems in life. Just always remeber that every problem has its own solution,they were not created without solutions,sometimes the only problem is,its difficult and takes time to find the answers.
Don't ever give up,there's always a light. Family and friend have a big part in solving problems.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 16
That is true , problems are of any form so we have to think wisely as how to solve our problem and the problem of our family and also others not related to us.
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
31 Jul 16
You're right, Problems, even if not your own, will affect you when the people around you, especially family, have them.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 Jul 16
@sunrisefan , so true, and sometimes I want to ignore, but seems I am guilty if do not help or mind them.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
31 Jul 16
@cacay1 I can understand you, Ms. Erly. That's the attitude of one who cares for family and friends. I have to log out now. Sleepy. Hehehe! Good night :)
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 Jul 16
@sunrisefan me too, thanks and have a good night.
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@stifler0207 (514)
• New Delhi, India
31 Jul 16
nobody gets perfect life...... everybody facing some problem even the rich people also facing problems.... so dont be upset you are not alone...
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 Jul 16
@stifler0207 , no problem, it's 
okay.
okay.1 person likes this
@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
31 Jul 16
@stifler0207, I am not upset I am sharing my opinion.Thanks.
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@stifler0207 (514)
• New Delhi, India
31 Jul 16
@cacay1 oh i am sorry for that.....
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@ValueAdder (409)
• Philippines
1 Aug 16
As one of my favorite mentors always say, "Don't ask for an easy life, but ask for skills." That is so true. There will always be problems that will come our way because life here on earth will never be perfect. We can avoid some if we are good enough to be wise not to create problems ourselves. Many times, it is God's way of preparing us for the next higher dimension in our lives. Problems can help us to mature and learn from our mistakes.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 16
Yes, true, problem is part of our existence on earth.The problem may be an external problem like terrorism, heinous crimes. We are also affected by problems outside our force .As sun revolves around the planets, so with humans revolve with different problems, but they could be solved according to our willingness to help solve problems of ourselves and others.
@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 16
We cannot distance ourselves from a family member's problems.We are also affected and by all means find a way to help.
@crazyhorseladycx (39515)
• United States
31 Jul 16
the trouble with many 'f those troubles 's they're most usually self-inflicted one way'r 'nother. sadly the family'n friends get involved 's they rally 'round those with problems. that don't mean that'cha can't still've yer happiness, whilst offerin' 'em comfort though. if'n ya do such, 't jest brings ya down's well.
there's no such monkey 's a 'perfect' anythin'. too many variables involved, 'n folks most oft want more. not takin' the time to truly 'ppreciate what they've got. human nature's a most odd thingy.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
1 Aug 16
problems make us stronger persons and we must seek comfort from God but at the same solve it on our own.. these problems give color to our loves as long as we don't dwell in them to too long. we can find solutions and not err again, so these problems will be out of our lives for good
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
31 Jul 16
Same here, just wondering why some people could not care as much as we do when a relative or family member needs help. Are we so sensitive, so gullible, or just caring? It could be the last one, we care a lot about them that's why we are always affected by their problems.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 16
There are others who do not care and there are also those who really share a helping hand.
@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
1 Aug 16
Whether we like it or not, problems are part of our life. We should be brave enough to embrace it. The strength should not come from within us but from up above. 
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@skysnap (20154)
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31 Jul 16
if we avoid problems then we don't grow. we just have to face them. I was avoiding the problem in the past. and my success became limited. we have to fail everyday. then we grow. we have to get humiliated then we grow. that's just what i feel. i am a bit too late for this realization. seen job loss, seen poverty, seen love marrying to some other person, seen parents deserting me, seen good people helping me. so this way i have realized that we get strong by not avoiding the problem. because facing them gives us more strong force in ourselves.
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