The best memorial

@Rohvannyn (3098)
United States
August 7, 2016 7:25pm CST
Some people put up monuments to memorialize people who have gone into the next life. Some put up grave stones and name libraries or park benches after them. I can certainly respect that. I was thinking, though, about the best way to memorialize someone you love or respect - whether they have passed away, or not. I think the best way to do that is to pick some skill that they do well and learn how to do it, too. That way something they value will be carried into the future. For instance, I write letters in cursive in respect to both my mother and my grandmother. For my mother, I also write poetry on occasion. Both my mother and grandmother are still here, which is great, but I want something they love to be carried further, like a torch. In a similar fashion I am continuing to learn more about using tools. That's something my father loves, and I will still be doing it in the future. I know something about axes, homesteading, and aerospace because of him. Abilities and skills are like an Olympic torch. If they are dropped, they are forgotten, so why not carry them forward? Is there something you've learned because you wanted to be more like someone you admired?
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@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
8 Aug 16
My love for books came from my mother. She taught me to read before I started school. I also learn how to cook and bake watching her in the kitchen. She pass away more than three years ago and each time I pick up a book or rolling pin I am reminded of her.
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@Rohvannyn (3098)
• United States
8 Aug 16
It's beautiful that you remember her in this way. I think she'd be proud.
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• Philippines
8 Aug 16
I really admire how you memorialize the good things that you learn from your mother and grandmother, as well as your father. It is truly amazing how you thought that out. I remember in Bible times when God commanded the Israelites to put up something to be a memorial for what God has done unto them. However, as they continued their journey to the land God promised them, they forgot the goodness of God and complained. And so I was thinking, it would be good if we carry in our hearts and in our minds the good memorial we have from people we love or respect. I have some people I learned important lessons of life and you're right, one of the best way is to keep it in our hearts and do it in practice.
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@Rohvannyn (3098)
• United States
8 Aug 16
It certainly means more than a piece of carved stone that's pretty but easily forgotten. Thank you for your thoughts!
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@stringer321 (5682)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
8 Aug 16
Your discussion is very touching. My mother's mother cooks us dinners everyday, my mom is just cute and friendly, my father knows how to fix things, specially renovations, but, I don't like this kind of stuff. I will be more than happy to learn my mother's mother secrets of cooking. I am somehow nice and friendly like my mom, but, I don't like hanging out too much like she does. I will do myself a favor if I learn how to work like my dad. I don't want to learn it directly from him though, it's not fun. When my mother's mother pass away, we will be very sad and it will mean almost totally an end to the dinners that she cooks. My mom doesn't learn from her mom how to cook and I better ask her to start learning.
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
8 Aug 16
@Rohvannyn You are right, I'm not sure who will cook like her after she passes away. I better start learning some of her cooking. Thanks for the comment.
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@Rohvannyn (3098)
• United States
8 Aug 16
I think you should learn from her too. You can make some beautiful memories together, ones you will always cherish.
@Jessicalynnt (50523)
• Centralia, Missouri
8 Aug 16
I wanted to get my Ham license in memory of my grandfather, I never have, but I still would like too some day
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• Centralia, Missouri
9 Aug 16
@Rohvannyn I am not sure, I dont even know what all it takes. you used to have to learn morse code, I have worked on that on and off, but more off in the last few years
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@Rohvannyn (3098)
• United States
8 Aug 16
That would be a really neat thing to do. Besides, Ham operators have a vital role and I wonder how many there are anymore.
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@Rohvannyn (3098)
• United States
10 Aug 16
@Jessicalynnt I think you still do have to learn it, however, that doesn't have to be so bad. I'm sure there's lots of info online.
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@sallypup (69156)
• Centralia, Washington
12 Aug 16
Probably reading cause of Nor Nor and story telling may come from my Dad.
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@sallypup (69156)
• Centralia, Washington
12 Aug 16
@Rohvannyn What new skill? Sylvia was great at using her hands to make rugs etc. but I have zilch skill or ability there.
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@Rohvannyn (3098)
• United States
12 Aug 16
I can imagine him being quite a tale spinner. Have you ever thought of taking up a new skill to honor someone you love or miss?
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