Loving the person who has been hurting you many times
By mspitot
@mspitot (3824)
Philippines
6 responses
@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
20 Aug 16
I've been in the exact same position.
What happened with me and my last ex was we kept splitting and getting back over and over again.
I just carried on with the cycle until I was done then I never saw her again.
So just carry on until you're done then it'll be over
Or find willpower and get out now, it's totally within your power to do whatever you want.
You're 50% responsible for the situation
Or find willpower and get out now, it's totally within your power to do whatever you want.
You're 50% responsible for the situation3 people like this
@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
22 Aug 16
@mspitot you'll get out when you get out...maybe you'll get some will power and get out before more damage happens, that's up to you.
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
@Mike197602 yes, maybe I'm just waiting for the big push...Thanks for your advice...
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@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
20 Aug 16
Well, you will know it when you're done. You'll have enough at some point, if he continues to hurt you.
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@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
20 Aug 16
that's what I think too
you stay on the ride until you've absolutely had enough then you get off....when you get off is down to you
you stay on the ride until you've absolutely had enough then you get off....when you get off is down to you1 person likes this
@allen0187 (58438)
• Philippines
21 Aug 16
Do yourself a favor and move on from this person. You are shortchanging yourself. Everyone deserves to be loved including you and you need to start loving yourself more for you to get out of this awful relationship rut.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 16
I've heard this story so many times. You break up, you make up and a few weeks later, you break up only to make up later. It's really up to you to decide when you have had enough. Can you live without him? Or is it because you just don't want to be alone? Sometimes love hurts but that is not love. Love shouldn't hurt. It should make you two happy. Hope you will come to a happy decision.
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Aug 16
I know how you feel. My husband has cheated on me a lot and has broke my heart many times but for some reason, we are still together. Your not alone.
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