Loving the person who has been hurting you many times

@mspitot (3824)
Philippines
August 20, 2016 6:05pm CST
Sorry for this post. I just need to release this. I have been loving a person who has been breaking my heart so many times. I don't know how to stop this but we keep on coming back to each other.
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@Mike197602 (15483)
• United Kingdom
20 Aug 16
I've been in the exact same position. What happened with me and my last ex was we kept splitting and getting back over and over again. I just carried on with the cycle until I was done then I never saw her again. So just carry on until you're done then it'll be over Or find willpower and get out now, it's totally within your power to do whatever you want. You're 50% responsible for the situation
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
I have wanted to get out long ago but we just keep coming back together although it's hard and hurting.
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@Mike197602 (15483)
• United Kingdom
22 Aug 16
@mspitot you'll get out when you get out...maybe you'll get some will power and get out before more damage happens, that's up to you.
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
@Mike197602 yes, maybe I'm just waiting for the big push...Thanks for your advice...
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@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
20 Aug 16
Well, you will know it when you're done. You'll have enough at some point, if he continues to hurt you.
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
I pray to make that happen But it has not come yet..I know I have taken a lot and I am just waiting for myself to burst and end this cycle.
@Mike197602 (15483)
• United Kingdom
20 Aug 16
that's what I think too you stay on the ride until you've absolutely had enough then you get off....when you get off is down to you
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@allen0187 (58448)
• Philippines
21 Aug 16
Do yourself a favor and move on from this person. You are shortchanging yourself. Everyone deserves to be loved including you and you need to start loving yourself more for you to get out of this awful relationship rut.
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@allen0187 (58448)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
@mspitot good luck to you then!
@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
I'm trying hard to do that..
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@UmiNoor (4446)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 16
I've heard this story so many times. You break up, you make up and a few weeks later, you break up only to make up later. It's really up to you to decide when you have had enough. Can you live without him? Or is it because you just don't want to be alone? Sometimes love hurts but that is not love. Love shouldn't hurt. It should make you two happy. Hope you will come to a happy decision.
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
There are poeple showing interest to me but I don't know why I decline them and I keep on choosing him even though we are on that cycle. I am not afraid to be alone. I just keep coming back to him despite of his flaws.
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@skysnap (20154)
21 Aug 16
Its hard and also not good for our health
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
I know and it also makes me cry at night..
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@carebear29 (31942)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Aug 16
I know how you feel. My husband has cheated on me a lot and has broke my heart many times but for some reason, we are still together. Your not alone.
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
No matter how I try to open myself to others, I still choose him.
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