Yesterday another birthday not so good
By bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50970)
Holiday, Florida
August 22, 2016 2:06pm CST
So before the 21st, I told daughter I would be willing to buy a cake and dinner for Clay as a gift and she said no she would buy the cake.
This was when I had made grandsons lady so much fun for her.
In the meantime, over the next couple of days, all Clay did was slam doors and yell cuss words about my Coco dog barking. Poor thing she has been getting a lot of trouble over doing what a dog sometimes does.
So since I was quite mad about it and him acting like a baby. almost as though he was jealous over our big bash for grandsons wife. Anyway, I did nothing but tried to stay out of the way. Doesn't help any that daughter always goes all out for him buying anything he demands while telling me she has no money to put toward other important things like some of the electric, etc.
Needless to say, she even made a comment about it on Facebook . I usually hate making comments on there but could not leave it go. Am tired of all that. Last year, he made daughter leave me in AZ, knowing my son was also going for a few days during my birthday and I was total alone till a friend stopped by and brought me a little cake. Like I told everyone, I am not a big baby expecting gifts and all that/. I just want someone to spend a little time with me. I am her mom and their grand, etc. Hopefully, I will at least have company but if he has anything to say about it, maybe not. 
btw, daughter bought cake and his mom bought him ice cream even though he was being a butt about her birthday and refusing to even go see her on hers the day before,his own mother he treats like this. 
yes if its your kid, you forgive. 
but he is not mine.
hes like a spoiled child/baby and I am not about to give into that. I think he turned 32 or 33 yrs. also I think daughter bought him a new toy, a game controller . 
btw, daughter bought cake and his mom bought him ice cream even though he was being a butt about her birthday and refusing to even go see her on hers the day before,his own mother he treats like this.
yes if its your kid, you forgive. but he is not mine.
hes like a spoiled child/baby and I am not about to give into that. I think he turned 32 or 33 yrs. also I think daughter bought him a new toy, a game controller . 10 people like this
12 responses
@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
22 Aug 16
Ugh. That guy is such a big baby and oh I wish your daughter did not give into his whims. He acts like he is entitled when he doesn't even lift a finger to do help out with anything. I'm sorry he is not one bit thoughtful, not even on birthdays, but sounds like he is this all throughout the year!
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Aug 16
he is and after 7 yrs. of being most times living with him because of my daughter, I have given up on his ever changing. I will likely die before it ever gets done if it ever does
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Aug 16
@bunnybon7 Wow, has it been 7 years? I hope there will come a time when you daughter sees that she cannot possibly support this guy any longer . . . he is a thorn!!
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Aug 16
@much2say definitely and I have prayed. maybe I should pray harder
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@beaniefanatic13 (5068)
• Grand Junction, Colorado
22 Aug 16
Are these people living in your home? I don't care if it were my kid or not, I wouldn't tolerate that kind of behavior in my home. I don't care if it's my child's boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse. That kind of behavior is completely uncalled for. I would be putting my foot down with a set of rules that they could either abide by or look for their own place and they could behave anyway they like. I have a number of dogs and cats and they are all important to me, it is their home also. At that age he should have a better set of manners, especially in someone else's home.
Do you mean that they dropped you off in AZ, alone? Not at someone's home to visit? What a horrible thing to do. I wish you much luck in your dilemma, you truly deserve better.
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Aug 16
yes dear you are right. only problem is, I am terribly disabled and need someone here and they rented it with me, on the lease so not much I can do unless I figure something out. sadly. thanks. I just rant at times to get opinions to assure myself I am not being unreasonable. thanks for your support.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Aug 16
oh bunnybon will she ever learn that she deserves a much nice boyfriend one who
will treat you both with respect and love
not spoiled selfishness. wish I lived closer
I would come visit as I too get lonely I wish
cocoa would bite bite him, scare him into leaving so your daughter could get a new nicer boy friend.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
23 Aug 16
I would not want that for fear they would hurt coco and then I would have to get the broom and fight them. 
and call 911 on all
and call 911 on all
At his age he should have been acting matured .@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Aug 16
absolutely . sometimes I think he may be retarded. he needs disability if he won't work. like I told her he still needs to have an income to support himself not her do it. yet he refuses to even admit that. she is smart in all other ways. why will she not see this?
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD no its not her son. I could understand if it was. its her boyfriend that lives here with us also
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
27 Aug 16
@bunnybon7 She's too blinded by her love for her son . She will regret that later in life .
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
23 Aug 16
it would except when he left last time my daughter just laid around when she wasn't at work and cried and wanted to die. I have no idea what is wrong with her. I keep praying for her to get sick of him but it has been 7 yrs. we dealt with this. after he was gone a month, he ended up in the hospital from drinking and she went , got him out and brought him home. we rent together here and I can't afford to make him leave because she would go with him. the time he left, he was leaving her. 
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@simone10 (54180)
• Louisville, Kentucky
24 Aug 16
@bunnybon7 You really are in a predicament, aren't you? Maybe one day she will get tired of him and kick him out.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
24 Aug 16
i dunno how ya can live'n all that mess, hon. heck, i'd rather be 'lone than with that bunch from what'cha share here :(
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Aug 16
I know. its just my bad that I don't seem to far well all alone with no one to go get things and such for me. sorry I just rant a lot. daughter won't listen so I do it here.
daughter won't listen so I do it here. 1 person likes this
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Aug 16
@crazyhorseladycx no don't stay away. you are good here with me and everyone
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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
24 Aug 16
@bunnybon7 i know such's gotta be most frustratin', hon. i jest wish ya lived'n a better situation. all that stress can't be good fer ya 'n no doubt feelin' such keeps ms. coco riled 's well.
rant 'way! we'll listen 'n i'll try to hold my tongue...the end run 'f steroids seems to prevent such?? perhaps i ought to take a hiatus 'til i can play nicer. 
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Aug 16
well that was last year. thanks. this one was nice thanks to my efforts and grandson
@marsha32 (6631)
• United States
24 Aug 16
I see my son is your words---he doesn't like my mom's dog and yells at him and calls him names. He always barks at him, probably knowing he doesn't like him.
As far as my birthday, it was my 50th this year and we had a big family day planned to visit a museum in a little town close by. My son backed out on going. It hurt my feelings because everyone else was going and I did want them all there for my 50th.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Aug 16
I understand. you expect respect and caring on your birthday if at no other time. that is your special day and you feel people should let you know if they love you. to me my dog is family. a lot of men look at it is just a dog but everyone knows mine is a lot to me. she is my only companion and they have companions. I try and care and respect that. she barks at my grandson at first but is learning to trust and love him. and he is always good to her anyway, cause he loves me.
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Aug 16
wow. your birthday is the day before mine. cool. some just don't ever grow up and he is one of those
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Aug 16
well problem is I am stuck here now. thanks dear. I appreciate your caring.
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Aug 16
thank you dear. thanks to my own determination and grandson who feels quite the same about this guy, it was great .
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
27 Aug 16
@bunnybon7 That's good to hear, I'm happy for you.
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@Marilynda1225 (91208)
• United States
22 Aug 16
Sorry to hear there was so much drama going on
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Aug 16
yes guess it was great for him cause that's what he likes to cause.
