Granddaughters Savings Account.

@velvet53 (24417)
Palisade, Colorado
August 24, 2016 9:52pm CST
I texted my granddaughters mother today and asked her for my granddaughters social security number so I could open a savings account. The next thing I know my son is calling me and told me that she won't give that info out to anyone. she I am trying to stay calm about this but she is not thinking about her daughters future.My son did make a comment that he wondered if Madison had his last name. So I made a call and was able to get a copy of the birth certificate. She does have his last name. I also found out how he can get her social security number. What do you think of women that plays these games?
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• United States
25 Aug 16
i dunno why some folks (aint jest women) do that sorta thingy. i asked my daughter-in-law fer my latest grandsons ss# so's i could get him started off with savin's bonds (he's got 2 sets 'f grandparents, 3 sets 'f livin' great grands 'n a host 'f other family who buy him gifts...) 'n she declined. so, i jest write her a check fer each holiday 'n hope that she gets him bonds 'r 't the very least puts the funds'n a savin's account. if'n he's payin' child support 'n can legally claim her'n his taxes (e'en if'n 'tis jest e'ery other year) he ought to've her ss#?? i know....none 'f my business...
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep 16
That is SO sad. I don't know why people has to be that way. I hope also that your grandson gets savings bonds from the money you are sending.
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
15 Sep 16
@crazyhorseladycx HaHa I can relate. How have you been?
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• United States
14 Sep 16
@velvet53 i dunno either, hon. i fear askin' what they do with the funds i send, i figure not knowin' prolly saves me bail money :)
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Aug 16
I dont know why she plays games but we are all told to not give out our social security numbers. maybe you could ask your son to put te money into an account for your granddaughter.I will not give that info of my social security to anyone but certain privileged peo ple.
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
25 Aug 16
I was just thinking the same thing. I am sure that her mom has all the info. Hopefully my son can get a social security card then we will be ok.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Aug 16
@velvet53 yes that might be one wayto get around it lol
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
25 Aug 16
@Hatley I am going to do all I can to help him.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
26 Aug 16
Then maybe your son can just open an account for his daughters so you can deposit money on them . However , it should be an account wherein the signatories are you and your son so he cannot withdraw it without your permission or his daughter's permission .
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep 16
She won't even give it to him but we are going to get it.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54720)
• United States
26 Aug 16
Those kind of games are so childish to play.
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep 16
It is sad that people has to play these kind of games.
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@sallypup (69212)
• Centralia, Washington
25 Aug 16
A family mess. I dislike those intensely.
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
25 Aug 16
Me too. I have always been there for her and done all that I can. She is not thinking of her daughter at all.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Aug 16
How sad. I hope you're able to get a savings account set up for her.
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep 16
I will be soon. I don't think it is right that she won't even let my son have it.
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
23 Sep 16
@just4him Where there is a will there is a way.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Sep 16
@velvet53 Good, I'm glad you'll be able to do it.
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@carexing25 (1822)
• Philippines
25 Aug 16
i don't know why some mothers can be very possessive of their children..i mean, some just don't share the responsibility because they are selfish enough.. it's for her child not for her so why would she do that? ..
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@velvet53 (24417)
• Palisade, Colorado
14 Sep 16
I don't know why she is that way. I bet her mother has the social security number.
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