Rebellious
By C
@ShyBear88 (59342)
Sterling, Virginia
September 19, 2016 7:04am CST
Wow lately my 5 year old girl has been so rebellious. She refuses to listen to me and her dad and even laughs about time out it gets to the point where she needs a good old fashion spanking on her behind. She isn't going away till she behaves herself a lot better.i know she is 5 and isn't going to be good all of the time but the screaming, running and hiding when she is in trouble is going to stop. She is going to have to earn her tv time back as we'll a small he old cell phone.
I told her this morning it's school, come home we are doing reading, eating dinner, soccer practices, come home to bed. If she ants things she is going to have to do the 4 R's which are, respect, reaction, responsibility, amd relationship. She earns her bucks at school and I told her she needs to be like she is at school at home.becuas her behavior at home is not acceptable.
Where did my sweet, sassy girl go!
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
19 Sep 16
She is very cute! She is doing what all kids do at that age she is testing your limits and seeing how far she can push you and what she can and can't get away with. Now that she is in school she is seeing so many different behaviours and how other children are with their parents. You are doing the right thing by immediately letting her know that it will not be tolerated at home. All the best to you. Being a parent can be very trying at times.
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
19 Sep 16
So very trying. She went to be early last night because she was just didn't want to listen. We are going to try a new routin after she gets home so she can earn her tv time back. I hope her brother transitions in well next year.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
19 Sep 16
@ShyBear88 I wish you all the best. My children are grown now but I still remember those times.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
19 Sep 16
@Happy2BeMe hopefully she will change her additive here soon
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@Blondie2222 (28610)
• United States
19 Sep 16
yeah my niece has tantrums alot too she is 4. If she doesn't get her way she will start crying and yelling at her mom. My sister tries to put a stop to it but with her being an only child and single mom it's hard for her but shes doing her best. I think eventually they will grow out of this stage or atleast I hope. She does take things away from her when she acts up etc.
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@Blondie2222 (28610)
• United States
19 Sep 16
@ShyBear88 yeah my niece is now in school all day for kindergarten she will be 5 in november. Before she was in daycare all day as my sister works but it seems she only has bad tantrums when she is at home and doesn't get her way. We keep telling her they need to stop and she needs to stop mouthing back to her mom also. My sister does her best with her but at times she cant win. We try to help also
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@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
19 Sep 16
@Blondie2222 I'm pretty tough so crying and stuff doesn't get to me it bothers my husband an she'll get angry so I normally deal with it before I let him get in. I'm also with the kids all day so I'm use to their crazy and wild behavior but their is a line to hoe much anyone can take. Just got to keep strong and do the best you can. Parents are human ans it some takes a Villiage.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
19 Sep 16
Very age ha their trials. I hated age 4 I hate even more age 5 with my kid being in school all day everything for her is different she hasn't spend more then either 4 hours away or just a few days away from me but not all day every day ans just sees me for a few hours in the evening at least I do have a partner to help and two other kidd.althoguht what those two see they will try to do.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Oct 16
she will come back right now she is sort of mixed remember she is o noluy five gut y ou are showing her there are bouindaries to her behavoir and really deep inside she wants those boundaries shje will returtn to sweetness again its just a stage right now
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
19 Sep 16
Yeah I know she is growing up jaunt like her little brothers are.
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@responsiveme (22923)
• India
19 Sep 16
Kids....they are lovable but growing up with them requires all your skills.
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
19 Sep 16
It has nothing to do with skills if it did their would be a hand book. No hand books for kids just all trial and error.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Oct 16
@ShyBear88 shty bear dont forget to tell her though that youlove her that will
not spoil her as you are right in y our actioons but do it and love her too even nau ghty childfren need that assurance please she is only five not te n or 12
you may be expecting a bit too much
@ShyBear88 (59342)
• Sterling, Virginia
21 Sep 16
I want a good teenager not a bad one. If she is rebellious as a teen please let be not like right now. Children you love them but some days you want to lock them up.
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