Feeling Guilty - Bought my nephew a pajama set, but nothing for my niece!
By Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94909)
United States
October 10, 2016 12:55am CST
For the past 3 years, I have been used to spoiling my nephew!
Now that I have a niece, she was just born last month - I feel guilty when I buy stuff for my nephew and nothing for my niece!
I have a $5 Kohl's cash that expires tomorrow and the nearest Kohl's is 15 minutes away. I am not going to drive there just to buy something so I browsed online.
My nephew is a huge fan of Thomas the Train (who isn't at the age of 3) and I saw a 4 piece Pajama Set that I knew he would love! So I got that for him & paid the difference.
But ... I didn't get anything for my niece!
But, I did buy her gifts last month and my nephew not so much! I will later buy the both of them equally when I start Christmas shopping. 
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15 responses
@JamesHxstatic (29410)
• Eugene, Oregon
10 Oct 16
Now you will spoil both and be the favorite aunt.
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
10 Oct 16
Yes, I will. And they have another aunt and uncle who will do the same too. 
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@Jenning (2016)
• Nigeria
11 Oct 16
@infatuatedbby And ensure you make that niece of yours cul. Lol
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
11 Oct 16
@cacay1 Yes I love to spoil too. :) Cheers to being aunties!
@LovingMyBabies (85923)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Oct 16
She doesn't know the difference right now but be careful once she gets older to buy equally or she will feel left out. I tell my kids if we don't have enough of something for all of them then no one gets.
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
11 Oct 16
Yes, as of right now she won't. But I will do the same. I am not working right now ~ so whatever I can get them I will. :)
@zweeb82 (5652)
• Malaysia
13 Oct 16
@infatuatedbby Awe...isn't she so blessed to have such a nice aunty
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
13 Oct 16
Haha yea she is still small. :)
I ended up buying her stuff later on.
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
12 Oct 16
She is too young to know the difference, for now it doesn't matter, later well then you need to be fair. I just got a 30% coupon from Kohls so I am going shopping myself. lol
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
13 Oct 16
Hehe yes! Thanks! I did end up buying her some stuff.
That's a good deal you got 30% and you can stack it with other deals/coupons too if you get any more. :)
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@BelleStarr (61463)
• United States
16 Oct 16
@infatuatedbby I just went to use my 30% today. I decided to start Christmas shopping while the sales we on. I got $60 of Kohls cash and saved almost $400, it was a good shopping trip.
@teamfreak16 (43655)
• Denver, Colorado
10 Oct 16
If she's only a month old, I'm sure she's not too worried about it.
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
11 Oct 16
Hahah yes She got a lot of gifts already!
She got a lot of gifts already!1 person likes this
@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
11 Oct 16
Hehe thank you. :)
I just started Christmas shopping and bought her some stuff online already.
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
11 Oct 16
@infatuatedbby wow Christmas shopping so early? great
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
11 Oct 16
Me too! I just started Christmas shopping today. :)
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@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
12 Oct 16
Don't spoil them so much, they might as something expensive as they grow up.
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
13 Oct 16
Oh no, their parents' can afford that! Lol.. not me. :)
@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
11 Oct 16
Haha yes :)
I just went online shopping and bought her some stuff. I'm starting Christmas shopping!
@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
11 Oct 16
Hehehe :)
I did start on some Christmas shopping today and now they're both balanced at items. :)
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@IvySaysHi (4603)
• United States
10 Oct 16
Looks like you've got the gift giving plan down to even out. She is still a little tiny thing who wouldn't really notice much anyway. I feel bad not being able to afford anything on my own for my son's bday or my hubby's bday next month but ya know being a college student and mom with no job doesn't give me much choice.
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
11 Oct 16
Yes, she won't notice - but she will know when she gets older that I love her.
Gifts aren't as important as long as you have each other! You guys can find fun things to do in your area for free and still have a great time. :)
Happy early birthday to your son / husband.
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
11 Oct 16
Yes. :) Especially when they're older! But my nephew has a birthday right after Christmas, so he will get more gifts lol!
