I am a little nudger! What about you? / myLot

By DJ

Bangalore, India

November 7, 2016 11:47am CST

That's how I am while helping a friend figure something out. I give them advice or a suggestion if asked but I don't leave it at that. I ask questions in favor and against the matter concerned. While listening to the answers I receive, it gives me a slight idea about what the said friend wants or needs.......deep down inside

I keep them going and let them reach the revelation on their own. Of course, I give a little nudge!

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11 responses

Patsie Hatley is Deceased

@Hatley (163772)

• Garden Grove, California

7 Nov 16

yes I ofte n do that for a friend to get her to take my advice lol lol

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@Daljinder (23193)

• Bangalore, India

7 Nov 16

@Hatley HAHA! oh ho so you are sneaky!

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Manisha

@ms1864 (6882)

• Bangalore, India

8 Nov 16

I am more of a discuss and reasoning kinda person. I kinda have this thing where i need to know the person has the right interpretation of what i was explaining. If they do....i am alright with whatever decision they make....the choice is their own after all. I only provide a option.

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@Daljinder (23193)

• Bangalore, India

9 Nov 16

@ms1864 Talking it out is what lead them to decision so its good

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Jabo

@jaboUK (64346)

• United Kingdom

7 Nov 16

You are the best sort of friend to have

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@Daljinder (23193)

• Bangalore, India

9 Nov 16

@jaboUK Thanks! I try to be one

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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)

• Perth, Australia

10 Jan 17

@Daljinder Yeah you are good at that. I can't really say I am good at that. Well I mean, I don't know if I am. I do like to ask questions when someone is sad, worried or concerned etc because I like to make sure I understand them clearly and hopefully see if I can think of ideas to tackle the situation and hopefully make them feel better. But I actually feel bad asking too many questions. I'm not too certain why yet ( guessing it's cause of Aidan ) but I worry I may piss the person off asking questions or trying to encourage them to do something to help the situation...ok yep it's cause of Aidan lol

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@Daljinder (23193)

• Bangalore, India

28 Jan 17

@VivaLadani13 Yeah yeah I am good at many things and so you keep saying.

.... and saying you are not

I get it. see I am so tired of hearing this sort of stuff about you from you that I am literally yawning and not just through emoji. It also may be that I am starting to get sleepy.

Okay so don't mind me I think I really am sleeeeeeeepy! But Mommy and Daddy aren't home yet. I can't sleep until they are.

You will just have to deal with me until then.