Why?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
November 25, 2016 10:32am CST
I have a kind boyfriend, who is always there for me when I need him. I have an iPhone that I wished for. I have my new Jansport bag I'm dying to have because it helps me pack my things in one single carry. I have an extra income, of course, for my medicines and other things needed for medication. I have friends who are very supportive of me. I still have a Father and a Mother. And Brothers who help me a lot. But why I'm still not happy?
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Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94910)
• United States
25 Nov 16
Perhaps you want someone permanent?
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Michelle
@infatuatedbby (94910)
• United States
25 Nov 16
@JustBhem It could be. Do you still speak to your friends? Or since the job is a barrier (different from them) do you feel out of the picture?
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby I talk to some of my friends, yes. And Yes, I'm out of the picture. I want to gain more experiences, diversion from my sickness so that I can be delighted and be happy. Insecurities and jealousy are leveling up at the moment.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Nov 16
I was thinking of having a job. I see a lot of friends who are very successful in their job and I am here, left alone. Do yout think, it's one of the reason?
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rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
26 Nov 16
Why indeed , my friend ? Can you not identify what is tthat is not making yu happy despite all those ?
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rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
27 Nov 16
@JustBhem Sickness ? what is your sickness?
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Nov 16
Maybe I miss the things I do and passion about. I'd like to work but I'm afraid, what if they don't hire me because of my sickness. I want to have another diversion, go outside and meet new people, of course for a change.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Nov 16
@SIMPLYD I'm having a Kidney failure and into HemoDialysis for 3 years now.
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Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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25 Nov 16
I think you have to find something that lasts longer that your wants.. then you'd be happy.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Nov 16
Or maybe I am disconcerted.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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25 Nov 16
@JustBhem possible. but I think you have to see if you're happy without wants. that can show you where you are.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Nov 16
@skysnap All those things I mentioned was all given to me. Like I didn't buy those things. I should be happy because somehow friends knows me and the things that will make me happy. I am happy but why it will not last.
Sharon
@simone10 (54182)
• Louisville, Kentucky
27 Nov 16
Maybe you need to sit and think about what really makes you happy then make it happen.
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Sharon
@simone10 (54182)
• Louisville, Kentucky
28 Nov 16
@JustBhem That is very possible. We all need time to ourselves sometimes.
Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Nov 16
I will consider this. Maybe I need a break or something. Thanks.
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Ayuriny
@Ayuriny (5144)
• Denpasar, Indonesia
25 Nov 16
Lol. You just need to ceiling your desires...
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Ayuriny
@Ayuriny (5144)
• Denpasar, Indonesia
26 Nov 16
@JustBhem Yeah,....you should try to limit your desires, by being thankful to everything you have now. Enjoy your time!
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Nov 16
@Ayuriny I am thankful, and I should be happy. I know now what I'm missing.
Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Nov 16
Meaning?
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Thelma
@thelme55 (77692)
• Germany
26 Nov 16
Maybe you have to work and earn money for what you need or want. Sometimes, the things that earned from a hard work is more full filling than the given one and that brings you a long time happiness and you will be proud of yourself.
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Thelma
@thelme55 (77692)
• Germany
1 Dec 16
@JustBhem hopefully you will find happiness and contentment by then.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Dec 16
@thelme55 Crossing my fingers here. Thanks a lot.
Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Nov 16
You are right. And that's what is missing. It would pleased me working those things, though I am lucky because someone is to kind to give me those things. Hopefull by next year I will have a job.
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Marlina
@marlina (154117)
• Canada
25 Nov 16
Happiness comes from within. You have to make it.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Nov 16
Yes, I agree. Maybe what's missing is passion.
Judy Evans
@JudyEv (362431)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Nov 16
Maybe you need to be doing more for others - not saying you don't already but helping others can give a great sense of satisfaction.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Nov 16
Actually I was thinking about that. I am thinking a lot of things at the moment as well.
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Manisha
@ms1864 (6885)
• Bangalore, India
26 Nov 16
well first i think being grateful for everything you have....the are many people in the world who desire exactly what you have....so appreciate it. Then find something that challenges you....sometimes having it all...we stop exploring new possibilities.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Nov 16
I agree. I think that what's missing in me. The passion and being driven to the things I like to do.
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