Have You Ever Given A Speech in Front of a Crowd of People?
By Alice Henry
@IreneVincent (15960)
United States
December 10, 2016 11:18am CST
Experts say that “public speaking” is feared more than DEATH by some people. I say that if that were true, there should be more emphasis on public speaking in elementary and high school.
Children should be taught from an early age to speak publicly, I think. And if it isn’t offered at school, then parents should teach their children to speak on various subjects.
Giving oral book reports is one of the ways I learned to speak publicly in school. In some high schools now there are actually SPEECH classes offered. My school did not have this class.
Parents can do a lot though to remedy this fear for their children IF they teach their children to speak publicly. Then, when they become adults and are looking for a job, they will be able to present their bid for a job intelligently. And they will not have this FEAR of speaking in public.
There’s an ancient proverb that says: “Train up a child according to the way for him, even when he grows old, he will not turn aside from it.”
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@asfarasiknow (3340)
• Bournemouth, England
10 Dec 16
Public speaking has been part of how I have earned a living for the past 21 years. I also write speeches for others and coach speakers.
In the UK there is very little teaching of public speaking in schools, despite the requirement to deliver presentations in workplaces, in universities and, ironically, by pupils in schools!
It was never taught in any schools that I attended. I only developed this skill in my mid-30s, when I joined a public speaking class in desperation following a seemingly-disastrous TV appearance. I can honestly say that it was life-changing.
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@IreneVincent (15960)
• United States
10 Dec 16
Good for you.
I have been a motivational speaker for many years, training salespersons mostly. As a trainer I have spoken before large crowds of persons at our Conferences.
What helped me probably was that I sang on stage since I was a young child. I had no fear of getting up in front of an audience and singing. So, that carried over to training other persons to sell their product, I guess.
I just think that public speaking should be a school requirement, but sadly its not. My children have no fear of speaking either. They all learned how to do that at an early age.
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@asfarasiknow (3340)
• Bournemouth, England
10 Dec 16
@IreneVincent I was in a choir at school but couldn't sing (I just used to mime, like pop stars!) It thus didn't give me any performance skills (although it did occasionally get me out of a double Latin class).
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@IreneVincent (15960)
• United States
10 Dec 16
@asfarasiknow That's funny. I didn't like Latin either. Took two years of it and hated it. The only fun part was a skit in which I dressed up as the Roman goddess Ceres. And a class trip to Pittsburgh , PA
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 17
Yes, I have. I remember getting up in front of a class when I was at school. I don't remember what the subject was, and I had actually completely forgotten about it until I read your discussion!
I joined drama/theatre groups from the age of 10, although I was still always very shy. Both of my children do similar things (well, one is in the same groups I was in). So we have experience on stage.
None of us have a fear of public speaking, just a general aversion to individual conversation!
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@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
11 Jan 17
@IreneVincent I think I would be OK as long as I was prepared. Spontaneous conversation, I find quite challenging, but reading from a script or having set things to say, I'm fine!
@IreneVincent (15960)
• United States
11 Jan 17
I've had a lot of experience at public speaking but I don't do it anymore, since I've retired. If I had to do it now, I would probably be a little anxious about it.
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@IreneVincent (15960)
• United States
10 Dec 16
Yes, I agree. No child should be allowed to grow up without some experience in public speaking.
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