He Didn’t Notice or Just Didn’t Comment ?

A picture taken during our Christmas Party with the two lady bosses (the ones in dresses)
@SIMPLYD (90717)
Philippines
December 18, 2016 12:27am CST
At 11:00 p.m. last Friday , 16th of December , after I received my office Christmas gift and the gift checks , I called my husband to fetch me already . Wow , he begged off to just fetch me at 11:30 p.m. He said is having a bottle or two of beers with his former officemate . And when I went inside the car when he finally fetched me , he was in a good mood (he always is , when he had a bottle or two of beers) . He didn’t notice my new blouse which he earlier forbid me to buy . I got what I prayed for , but I was a bit disappointed that he didn’t praise my new blouse and how I looked . And his wish of crispy pata , was turned into congee with lots of garlic , ox tripe and egg , because it's what he likes after having a beer or two . And while eating , he looked at me , smiled , but didn't say anything .
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• United States
18 Dec 16
Hehehe your blouse looks very nice (was it the one in the photo). He was too busy waiting for you to prepare his crispy pasta in congee =)
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• United States
18 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD Looking beautiful :) Did you end up telling him about your new blouse after he didn't notice? :) or today later hehe
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
19 Dec 16
@infatuatedbby Nope . I didn't bring it up and will never will .
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
Thank you. Yes, that's the one. This was taken at the party , the photo place .
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
Hahaha! And you had a bargain because instead of crispy pata, you only had to buy congee :)
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
Correct! A big savings .
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
19 Dec 16
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
19 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD Hehehe! And he forgot about the dress of Ms. LT :)
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
19 Dec 16
Why did he forbid you to buy it?
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@toniganzon (77064)
• Philippines
19 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD sorry just didn't have the time to.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
19 Dec 16
@toniganzon That's okay . Well, he forbid me when i arrived late from work and asked me where i went . I told him i looked for a new blouse for our Christmas part , but he was irked and told me i have lots of new beautiful blouses courtesy of his aunt who came from the US , and warned me not to buy any new one anymore but just choose from there . But i have to buy a new one in sync with the theme of the party - black . But what i bought was white with black stripes but wore the fur coat his auntie lent me.
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
19 Dec 16
Oh you haven't seen my previous post with regards to that . Maybe you should read that to fully understand why . But anyway , i am rebel_woman , i just cannot obey him .
@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
18 Dec 16
What a nice happy group picture. Someone has a shoe attachment?
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
Thank you . What do you mean by the shoe attachment ?
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
19 Dec 16
@Bluedoll Oh , so that's what you are meaning to say . Actually , she and the GM (the one in red dress) has been to two other affiliate parties before going to ours at 10:00 p.m. , so she said she changed her high heels which was killing her already , into those rubber shoes .
@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
18 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD I like your group they are super cool. The second person from the left, her shoes are attached to her feet. ha ha - joking you all look so good!
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
18 Dec 16
I cannot believe he did not notice, my husband immediately notices if I wear something he never saw before.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
19 Dec 16
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
@LadyDuck Maybe . But then, that's better than him getting angry at me for buying a new blouse despite him telling me not to anymore. he he he
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
18 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD This is sure.
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
18 Dec 16
Dont mind. He is Drunk...lol
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
He is not drunk . He doesn't even smell of it had i not greeted him with a kiss.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
19 Dec 16
@amandajay His smile over the table while we were eating is something naughty that i know the meaning of . And i know you know that meaning when your hubby does that too .
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
18 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD hehe... really? may be he was teasing you.. just chill...
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
19 Dec 16
Maybe he is wise? He noticed but did not want to start an argument as to why you bought the blouse when he didn't want you to buy it for some reason?
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
20 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD That's a good husband!
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
20 Dec 16
Precisely , that what i had in mind . He wants me after all , to enjoy the party .
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
20 Dec 16
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@topffer (42155)
• France
18 Dec 16
You should have told him that you were deceived to not be complimented for your new blouse.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
. Actually, i know he noticed the new blouse , contrary to what he told me nt to buy anymore . But he didn't comment anymore , because i didn't nag him for having a drink again. he he he It's a win-win situation. he he he Well, he is not into praising me , because he said before if he does that, my head will swell. he he he
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@averygirl72 (38847)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
Maybe he didn't notice because he's so absorbed and focus on eating the congee.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
And he is in a happy mood , so he doesn't want to spoil his good mood by telling me i didn't follow what he earlier told me - not to buy a new blouse .
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@averygirl72 (38847)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
@SIMPLYD Oh yes, I see and your blouse is nice. I saw many who have that style of blouse lately.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
@averygirl72 thank you. Yeah , i think this is the craze as you see , our Audit team head has same style of sleeve . ha ha ha
@jstory07 (148701)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Dec 16
I bet he did not even notice the blouce.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
No, i know he noticed specially when we were in the restaurant , facing each ther on the table sharing stories . He is in a good mood , so he let t pass, as he scolded me three days before to not buy a new blouse anymore. ha ha ha
@kevinakash (2084)
• Sri Lanka
18 Dec 16
haha. he will say something about your blouse next time. i'm sure
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
Spoken by a man , so i suppose he ill, when he saw me on it again. But i shall not be wearing that anytime soon again. ha ha ha he is in a good mood because he had a drink .
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• Sri Lanka
19 Dec 16
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@Morleyhunt (21741)
• Canada
18 Dec 16
There are things my husband notices immediately and there are things that slip by unnoticed. It is probably better that he didn't notice your new blouse.
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@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
18 Dec 16
Why did he forbid you to buy the new blouse? It looks good.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
19 Dec 16
Oh so you too haven;t seen my earlier post about it . If you will read my earlier post , it will answer your question , my dear . But nevertheless , i defied him .