Why Am I Not Surprised? Sickened, But Not Surprised.

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@DWDavis (25797)
United States
January 6, 2017 4:07pm CST
Why Is Anyone Surprised? A horrible thing happened recently in Chicago when four young blacks kidnapped a special needs boy, held him prisoner for two days, and tortured him Live on Facebook. Their behavior was sick and depraved. It was unconscionable and inexcusable. But it does not surprise me. I was not surprised at all to learn that these young people from Chicago - the most violent city in America - had committed this horrific act. They are simply behaving the way their parents and community have taught them to behave. Young people growing up socio-economically disadvantaged, too often born to single mothers who themselves were raised in poverty as dependents of the welfare system, have grown up with no self-respect and no respect for others. They believe everything should be solved using violence to assert their ability to intimidate us into giving them whatever it is we have that they want. They are mired in ignorance, despise education, and cannot think of any other way to deal with life other than to harm and kill those who they perceive to be weaker than themselves, for monetary gain or, as in the case of the Chicago Four, for sport. They bring this attitude into the schools, and into their everyday interactions with most of the people they meet. At home, there may be an adult who gave birth to them, but there is no parent, no one who knows what is right from what is wrong. These children are basically growing up feral, living on the streets and surviving by their animal instincts – remorseless and cruel. Until we, as a society, face the truth that the Great Society and Welfare State established in the 1960s had led to the disintegration of the family in our nation’s low income inner city neighborhoods by recusing parents of their responsibility for their own children, we will never begin to address this problem. How would you fix a system that allows "parents" to abdicate responsibility for their children because they know the government will take care of the children for them when the result is teens and twenty-somethings who think there is nothing wrong with kidnapping and torturing a special needs child, and are astounded that anyone is upset they did it?
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Jan 17
I don't know if it can be fixed at this point. That's tragic. I can't imagine the horror that special needs child went through. Those four should be behind bars for what they did, but I know ultimately it won't fix the problem.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
7 Jan 17
My first thought when I heard the story was that we need to bring back public hangings, but I realized such a thing would bring society back down to their level. The only fix is education. We need to teach the young women of these communities that they need to look for a father for their children, someone who will own up and be responsible, instead of just choosing a baby daddy who they think will throw off cute babies.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Jan 17
@DWDavis right on ibdeed
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Jan 17
@DWDavis Education is an answer, but the person needs to want it or it won't do any good. Something about leading a horse to water.
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• United States
7 Jan 17
This is nothing new, it should be treated as a hate crime..they better make sure that charge is in there not just kidnapping and so on.
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• United States
7 Jan 17
@DWDavis I did hear the police on the news video stating this was a hate crime. However, I am worried that once the court is in session this somehow may be dismissed as a hate crime, though other charges may stick. High powered activist lawyers may try to get that charge out..but it is clearly a hate crime yes.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
7 Jan 17
@TiarasOceanView I hope the story has attracted too much attention for them to try and reduce the charges. The activist groups who work to support special needs people will not stand for it. And, with Trump in the White House by the time it comes to trial, though I am no fan of his, his Justice Department will be all over this.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
7 Jan 17
As I understand it, based on the language used on the video, they are charging all four with hate crimes as well as all the other charges.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Jan 17
Thats so horrible and to putit o n facebook is that going to help the situation or do peo ple just enjoy he aring horrible news you are right things do need to change but when and how s my question?
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Jan 17
@DWDavis horrid Ihope that tjey get prison time and doubled how awfuol to t hink like that brrrrrrrrrr.,
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
7 Jan 17
The sick thing is the Four thought it would be cool and make them look good to their friends by putting it on Facebook Live. The idea that they'd wind up getting arrested for it probably never crossed their minds because when they were in school they probably never received any punishment for their miscreant misdeeds greater than a warning not to do it again.
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• United Kingdom
8 Jan 17
@DWDavis Or they did receive punishment but just didn't care. It's water off a duck's back for some people.
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@averygirl72 (38848)
• Philippines
6 Jan 17
This is really bad and now I understand why this is happening.
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@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 17
I can't imagine what makes people want to do such awful things without recognising the pain and the consequences. We had a similar scenario in the UK a couple of years ago, but it was white adults torturing a special needs man for days. It wasn't video'd though. What goes through their minds? In the Nature vs Nurture battle it is definitely {lack of} Nurture winning in these situations.
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@DWDavis (25797)
• United States
8 Jan 17
More and more kids in the lowest socio-economic group are growing up virtually parentless. By the time they start school, they are already feral in how they look at the world. Then the schools try to make all kinds of excuses for them and accommodate their behaviors when the schools should be trying to correct their behaviors. But when the schools do, they get labeled as racists because the vast majority of these feral children are being raised by single black women living in poverty.
6 Jan 17
It was a HUGE despicable act.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Jan 17
they shou;d get a long prison term for that horrid
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7 Jan 17
@Hatley I agree 100%.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
6 Jan 17
This is a shame.
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@LadyDuck (502478)
• Italy
7 Jan 17
I have read what happened and it's horrible, but everything you say here is terribly true. It's never too late to change things, someone must start.
• Midland, Michigan
7 Jan 17
There is much that needs to be done to fix not only the children born into these conditions but many other children also. I think a lot of it has to do with both parents needing to work and not having a responsible individual that shares their values watch over their children. My husband heard of two men, I think it was, who did a similar thing to an older woman in her own home, although that wasn't made public on Facebook. It will take years to fix the system even if and when someone finds the best way to do that.
@DianneN (254926)
• United States
7 Jan 17
Their behavior is despicable! The police won't even get involved because of the shootings. I'm not sure what can be done. Education is what they need, but the parent/s and their children have little regard for education. What respectable man with an education would even want to become a husband and father to these people? If I knew the answer, I'd fix the problem.