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@amitkokiladitya (171998)
Agra, India
15 responses
@Mike197602 (15516)
• United Kingdom
24 Jan 17
maybe feel lucky you have people to help you.
Your country is fairly corrupt and the gap between rich and poor is massive.
If you lived here and made those comments you'd be ripped to shreds.
Go out on the streets and look at the homeless in your city...then stop moaning.
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@amitkokiladitya (171998)
• Agra, India
24 Jan 17
I m not unaware of the reality outside..
Secondly I'm moaning..I'm expressing my present thoughts on an interactive site...
Thirdly i did not harm anyone or anyone's sentiments in personal...
And fourthly everyone has a particular level of living and I don't think about people above or below me..
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
24 Jan 17
@amitkokiladitya You can find some maybe...
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@amitkokiladitya (171998)
• Agra, India
24 Jan 17
@magallon I feel like taking a break fr servants and try doing it myself
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@allknowing (154166)
• India
27 Jan 17
Soon there will be courses available on how to tackle our helpers. They are not what they used to be. I have gone through the stage of having ever obliging helpers to now defiant ones.
It is now a supply and demand situation where those who demand are more. We need to handle them with kid gloves.
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
25 Jan 17
Did you fire them yet?
I was once a servant..no more as I had bad employers.
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
29 Jan 17
@cacay1 Yes there is and hopefully karma will get the bad ones.
@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
29 Jan 17
@amitkokiladitya I hope you get your house in order to your satisfaction then DR.
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@Letranknight2015 (52550)
• Philippines
24 Jan 17
Why do you call them servants? why just call them workers.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Jan 17
i like your comment here, hijo. i think calling somebody a servant is somewhat degrading, it is as if the person is already near to the ground, figuratively. i would prefer to call them workers or helpers. (here, we don't call them alila or muchacha, but kasambahay-kasama sa bahay)
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@amitkokiladitya (171998)
• Agra, India
24 Jan 17
@ridingbet I have changed it already
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Good one!
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan 17
Problems start when we become dependent on helpers. They start taking advantage of our dependence on them. I think till such time you get a replacement, it would be prudent to adjust with the existing ones.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
29 Jan 17
@amitkokiladitya Thanks. I wish your problems of helpers get resolved sooner than later. Otherwise, you will have to take the additional burden.
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@amitkokiladitya (171998)
• Agra, India
29 Jan 17
@dpk262006 I'm taking the cooking burden
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@aseemchandna (70)
• Delhi, India
26 Jan 17
Hahaha.. That's a grave problem for sure kokil.. Even our cook has not been coming for the last 15 days or so.. She isn't well.. And today our maid bunked..it's really difficult to deal with these people
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@amitkokiladitya (171998)
• Agra, India
24 Jan 17
They give me more mental stress than relieving it.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
24 Jan 17
Sounds familiar. My parents have had several house helpers, some are really nice (to the extent that I used to treat them like part of our family) but some can be a total pain.
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@amitkokiladitya (171998)
• Agra, India
24 Jan 17
No matter what you do they soon seem to forget it
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@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
24 Jan 17
What have they been doing wrong? I understand your country has servants, but I still think they should be something grateful in your life, unless they have done something drastic.
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@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
24 Jan 17
@amitkokiladitya Living in a family that has never had anyone help under us, surely what they are not doing is not too bad. At least you have people in your life that to your bidding. Most others do not get to have that.
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@amitkokiladitya (171998)
• Agra, India
24 Jan 17
@DesirousDreamer I know bit still I get pissed off sometime
@amitkokiladitya (171998)
• Agra, India
24 Jan 17
Work place and house are two different places with different requirements
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@amitkokiladitya (171998)
• Agra, India
24 Jan 17
@syeow1 i have reached the last line of your discussion. Lol
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@syeow1 (5138)
• India
24 Jan 17
@amitkokiladitya oh still it's best to teach them how to work.behave humans like humans and see how much humanity they have..Show them moral behaviour if they still do same then warn them .If still they do then tell them to find a new job..
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@amitkokiladitya (171998)
• Agra, India
24 Jan 17
@sans224 yes from today I'm the cook
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@Linda1234 (4711)
• Houston, Texas
24 Jan 17
Hope you find good servants. good luck!
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