Advice on Anxiety

Florence, Kentucky
February 3, 2017 1:51pm CST
So I have crippling anxiety attacks and would like to hear if anyone else deals with this. And how you cope.
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@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
3 Feb 17
I don't know much about this crippling anxiety attacks but when I read its symptoms, I had one of the symptoms several years back. The flashback of a traumatic experience. But the experience that I had may not be classified as traumatic but that was so fearful. I was really afraid. This was what happened. I was with friends at the National Power Corporation in Iligan City, this is one of the cities in Mindanao, Philippines wherein the hydro electric power plant is located. My officemate visited her husband who was working there and her sister-in-law (her husband's sister) and I went with her. Her sister-in-law was just my age so we walked along the top overlooking the turbines. At first, I looked at it naturally as if there was nothing fearful. But when my officemate's husband noticed, he told us not to walk on that area. So we heeded to what he told us. It was at that time that I realized how dangerous it was, if we fall we surely die and not only that we will be like fruits being placed in a blender. From then on, I imagined how I will be when I fall. Every night, I had a hard time going to sleep thinking of that. I could not prevent myself from shivering. That went on for almost a month. I thought I was going crazy. I sometimes shouted during my sleep. What I did was I read books every night just to keep my mind busy to forget everything about the turbines. Even the thought of it at this time made me feel shivering but not so much. I could not even remember when it stopped. Maybe time healed it.
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@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
6 Feb 17
I don't know if you believe this. I haven't read about it yet but I was told by a natural doctor that our healing period is from 9:00 o'clock in the evening until 4:00 o'clock in the morning. So we have to sleep within this time. But I still have to research on this if I have the time to do so.
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@Beatburn (4287)
• Philippines
5 Feb 17
Good for you to overcome it. Sometimes, our body has its way of healing itself. It just needs time, and of course, something else to do.
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• Florence, Kentucky
4 Feb 17
That sounds life you have a fear of hights. I've dealt with emetaphobia since around 8 years old. Still have it. Still dream of it. The source of my anxiety attacks. And idk why im even afraid of it.
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@jstory07 (134456)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Feb 17
I do not like enclosed spaces so I try to avoid them when I can.
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• Florence, Kentucky
3 Feb 17
My worst fear is vomiting. I will cry and everything
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• Pamplona, Spain
3 Feb 17
You might well need medication for a while but later comes the fear of the fear its that which needs to be treated. Learning to relax in such a fast moving World can seem to be very hard but you can do it. Start by trying to slow down say for five minutes a day and build it from there. Hope it helps.
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• Pamplona, Spain
4 Feb 17
@Jazzyb00 Again the fear of the fear is what it is like having a bad dream and letting it get to you all day long. Its not easy to cope with Medication alleviates but does not cure not even herbs cure it. If you know what the fear is about you can do a great deal to face it head on but if you donĀ“t know what is causing it then its a bit difficult to cope with. I would talk to someone qualified and they might be able to disarm the repeating fear as I call it. Good luck.
• Florence, Kentucky
4 Feb 17
@lovinangelsinstead21 I do not know the cause. I've also talked to countless therapists and even asked about exposure therapy and they just give me meds.
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• Florence, Kentucky
4 Feb 17
I take meds but even so my fear just absolutely haunts me
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
3 Feb 17
I take medication for this.
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• Florence, Kentucky
4 Feb 17
Me too
@NJChicaa (115993)
• United States
3 Feb 17
Mine got to the point where I felt like I was having a heart attack and dying every day. An acquaintance kindly suggested her psychiatrist. I went to him, he got me on the right anti-anxiety meds, and I haven't had another one in 2 years. Best thing I've ever done for myself.
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@NJChicaa (115993)
• United States
4 Feb 17
@Jazzyb00 the ones I am on are non-habit forming. Neurontin and Topamax
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• Florence, Kentucky
4 Feb 17
@NJChicaa I've never heard of those. I take Lorazapam (Adivan) for my anxiety
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• Florence, Kentucky
4 Feb 17
Lucky. The therapist in ky really suck. I only get 10 anti anxiety meds a month.
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@atoz1to10 (6781)
• Australia
4 Feb 17
What is the reason for you to have this anxiety attack? The only way for it to go away will be facing it. But it takes time. Slowly it will go away... Goodluck.
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• Florence, Kentucky
4 Feb 17
The main thing my mind goes to when having an attack is I don't want to throw up. It's my worst fear. But stress and what not leads up to the actual attack
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@Metalchick (1391)
4 Feb 17
Sorry to hear you are suffering with anxiety. I have been affected with this recently too and after visiting my doctor they put me on Sertraline. It has helped a little but didn't want to be on these long so am trying out a herb supplement instead....Rhodolia Rosea or 5-HTP.
5 Feb 17
@Jazzyb00 Sertraline was medication the doctor put me on but found it gave me a lot of strange nightmares. Much prefer the herbal and amino acid options.
• Florence, Kentucky
6 Feb 17
@Metalchick i have very vivid dreams/nightmares almost every night. Sometimes i wake up exhausted or sweating. It feels like an out of body experience. Ik that sounds crazy lol
• Florence, Kentucky
5 Feb 17
What is that?
• Philippines
3 Feb 17
Try to relax a bit more. Condition yourself That nothing good will happen if we are paralyzed To Help someon.
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• Florence, Kentucky
3 Feb 17
I try. But i need a job and then I'm scared that I'll panic and get fired and it's just hard adulting..
@Beatburn (4287)
• Philippines
5 Feb 17
What happens before the attack comes? What could be the triggers?
@Beatburn (4287)
• Philippines
6 Feb 17
@Beatburn (4287)
• Philippines
6 Feb 17
• Florence, Kentucky
6 Feb 17
Well any situation where vomit is possible or present is a trigger. Amusement parks, new restaurant, sick people, etc. Other times there's no trigger, it just hits me out of nowhere. That happens a lot when shopping.
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3 Feb 17
My uncle deals with these all the time. The best way i have seen. Was dont get to worked up when your having one and take slow deep breaths. If its to bad seek medical treatment
• Florence, Kentucky
4 Feb 17
I take medicine as needed. My anxiety is different from others. I don't have the breathing problems. More of just pure panic and fear to where i start shaking and cant calm down. Its hard to explain.
• United Kingdom
4 Feb 17
Hi, I've had anxiety attacks for 20 yrs. I'm currently on medication which helps but it's still there. Have you tried deep breathing and relaxation exercises? Deep breathing can really help when you're having an attack. There are also some natural medications you could try.
• Florence, Kentucky
5 Feb 17
The breathing doesn't help bc my anxiety is focused on my stomach and nausea and just pure fear. It like my heart dropping over and over from something popping out and scaring me. It's hard to explain.
• Florence, Kentucky
6 Feb 17
@wildspirit37 I can't count how many psychiatrists I've seen since i was 8 yrs old. They all suck. They just sit and stare at me. It's aggravating
• United Kingdom
5 Feb 17
@Jazzyb00 I do know what you mean. Have you seen your doctor? They might be able to give you something to help.