cant sleep
By Becky
@mommymonky (325)
February 17, 2017 5:15am CST
So here I am at 515am still awake. I dont know why im even bothering to try to sleep still because I have to be up in less than an hour anyway.
I am upset because my fiance has been pretty much ignoring me for months now, and now he has downloaded snapchat on his phone and has a bunch of female friends on it.
I know I sound paranoid, but he has cheated on me before via chat and now he has the app that I know people use to cheat on their spouses with.
Earlier today I asked him if he wanted to get frisky and he just laughed and blew me off. When I acknowledged that I knew I was being blown off, he didnt say anything and just went back to ignoring me.
I feel so sad and lonely.
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6 responses
@Happy2BeMe (99392)
• Canada
17 Feb 17
Sorry to hear that. It is no fun to be in a relationship with somebody you ignores you and your needs. I would be upset to if it was me. Nobody like to be ignored. It is hurtful. If you suspect him to be cheating then there are reasons for that. You deserve to be treated better then that.
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@luisadannointed (4171)
• Philippines
17 Feb 17
Hey are you sure you want to marry that man? Sorry for the choice of words but... I don't think you deserve to be with someone like that. If ever you ate doubting too... Forgive me but.... It is better to find someone who can respect you and someone who can love and cherish you for always. God bless.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Feb 17
I'm not sure what you see in him but if it was me I wouldn't be sticking around to get hurt and cheated on.
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@mommymonky (325)
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18 Feb 17
We have been together for 11 years and have 3 kids. He wasn't always like this. Or, maybe he was, and it's just more obvious lately. I don't know.
@syeow1 (5137)
• India
17 Feb 17
Hey don't take it so seriously .Make thank to God you understand him before marriage..Just try to verify about him.If you are engaged with him then only..If you find anything wrong then best to leave him.if you are in love with him more then three years then talk with him and if your relationship is from year then he is flirt..
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@mommymonky (325)
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17 Feb 17
I took your advice and tried to talk to him about it this morning. He got defensive...I wrote another post about that, so I won't go into that here. I am so confused right now. I really don't know what to do, or how to handle this.
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