TEN THINGS WHICH ANNOY ME.

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@Kandae11 (53692)
February 19, 2017 6:37pm CST
I am not talking here about world affairs, these are just some of the little things people do which I find annoying. Of course people could find some things I do irritating as well - I don't know, after all - no one is perfect. (1) spitting in public. (2) Impatiently honking the horn as soon as the traffic light turns green. (3) Talking loudly on a cellphone in an otherwise quiet room. (4) Slurping tea or soup. (5) Trying to get to the head of a line with no consideration for those waiting patiently before your arrival. (6) Chewing with an open mouth. (7) Backbiting.- or Backstabbing (8) Talking roughly to a junior employee in front of other staff members - because you're the boss. (9) Feeling a strange touch while standing in a crowded subway train. (10) Bandwagonist behavior Feel free to add a few of yours.
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
20 Feb 17
I must agree with your list. I would add people who stand too close to speak, and those who whisper as if what they are saying is top secret.
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@TheHorse (206693)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Feb 17
I hadn't thought about the whispering thing!
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
Ha ha - that last one should have been on my list, but I was keeping the number at ten.
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• United States
20 Feb 17
I'll add to the list: People who stand too close. People who poke you when they are talking to you.
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• United States
20 Feb 17
@Kandae11 yes, had that done a time or two as well!
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• United States
20 Feb 17
@Kandae11 Yes I agree with you there as well! That sting is awful!
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
Right ! - or slap you on the back, not realizing their hand is heavy.
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• United States
20 Feb 17
What does backbiting mean? Most of the list you wrote applies to me as well. Some things that annoying me.. - People who don't know the driving regulations. Right has a right away where left turners have to yield, but when you do go - the person making a left honks & gets angry because they don't know how to drive and think they're right! - When you open the door for someone and they act like they're too good to say anything back at least a thanks. And I feel rude to walk out and slam the door to their face but nowadays it seems like I should just continue walking because people are rude - people who litter especially if the trash can is right there - people who open food packages in the market and don't pay for them My list can go on & on
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• United States
20 Feb 17
@Kandae11 Oh I see, yeah I am not fond of that either
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@TheHorse (206693)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Feb 17
To me it means people who gossip in a mean way about others. Or, at work, say bad things about others that could hurt their careers.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
I know what you mean about the list going on and on. - Backbiting is another word for backstabbing - meaning -talking ill things about someone behind their back.
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@RasmaSandra (73743)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Feb 17
I agree with what you have written. I hate people who are snobs, angry all the time and those who criticize much too much among other things.
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@TheHorse (206693)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Feb 17
Oh, I m bothered by those who see everything in a negative light, and by those who want you to acknowledge (on Facebook, etc.) how beautiful their children are, how great their latest accomplishment is, etc., but don't acknowledge anything about you.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
Snobbery is something I cannot abide. We are all flesh and blood and when we die we cannot take anything with us.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
@TheHorse That is what is called - self centered - not a nice way to be.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
20 Feb 17
I do agree on all 10 @Kandae11 . #1 People dumping trash on the ground when they are standing right NEXT to a waste basket. #2 Leaving the shopping cart wherever they want to instead of putting it where it belongs.
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@TheHorse (206693)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Feb 17
I used to see that all the time when I worked "in the ghetto."
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
20 Feb 17
@Kandae11 I usually give them a dirty look and say, "Did you drop something?" 98% of the time they will pick it up and put it in the trash.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
I have witnessed that so many times , especially in the city - people dumping trash on the ground when standing right next to a waste bin. Arghhh!
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@JudyEv (326222)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Feb 17
These all annoy me too. We have very little spitting in public here. Do you see it often?
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@JudyEv (326222)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Feb 17
@Kandae11 Years ago, we helped with a volunteer project in the backblocks of Thailand and all the villagers there spat all the time. In the end it was really turning my stomach.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
@JudyEv Ugh! - it is simply awful.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
Not often, but whenever I see it - in my country or anywhere else - it really turns me off.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Feb 17
You have almost covered things which could irritate us. There are some incorrigible souls who blow horns of their vehicles without any reason and there are others who park their vehicles in such a haphazard manner that others cannot move.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
22 Feb 17
@Kandae11 Very true. Blowing horns adds to noise pollution and irritates us.
@Kandae11 (53692)
21 Feb 17
Those two can be very frustrating.
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22 Feb 17
Right. Blowing horns for no reason is very annoying.
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@shaggin (71671)
• United States
20 Feb 17
I agree completely with 1-6! What is backbiting?
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
Saying things which may destroys a person's character behind their back - at the time the person doesn't know that something very bad is being said about them -- so they cannot defend themselves.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
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@Okay123 (103)
20 Feb 17
Backbiting is when people bite you from back...lol
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• United States
20 Feb 17
I agree, except for number 4, slurping tea or soup. Not that I do that, in america it is considered rude, but go to China, it is considered rude if you don't.. Just a little FYI in case you ever travel.
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• United States
20 Feb 17
@Kandae11 Yes, it is. The slurping will let the hostess know you are enjoying the meal, the louder you are, the better.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
Really! It is offensive not to slurp? Thanks for the tip.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
20 Feb 17
Someone who doesn't respect my personal space, breathing down my neck in the grocery line. And people who hit you in the heels with their shopping cart "by mistake" @Kandae11 that really annoys me.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
I agree - those two should be on my list as well.
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@akalinus (40639)
• United States
21 Feb 17
I hate people talking loudly on cell phones when I am a captive audience. I once listened to a conversation (they had the phone on speaker so I heard both sides) about someone's dreadful operation, the blood, the guts, and the slime. Just what I want to hear while eating lunch in a restaurant.
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@akalinus (40639)
• United States
22 Feb 17
@Kandae11 You are right. They only think about themselves and don't realize how others see them.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
22 Feb 17
Some people can be really insensitive.
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• Bangladesh
21 Feb 17
hmm me too
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 Feb 17
what is #7 and #10 ? Yeaah the #9 is the one that gets me... its like okay who touched that?!!!! I want to take you home with me
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
Backbiting is another term for back stabbing - which means saying ill things about someone behind their back. Bandwagonist behavior means, cheering only when the whole crowd cheers.- or following the crowd.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 Feb 17
@Kandae11 Okay, got it.
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@rina110383 (24495)
20 Feb 17
Numbers 1, 3, 8 and 10 annoy me as well. Also, parents who tolerate their unruly children in public places.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
Definitely, I sometimes wonder if they feel embarrassed or not.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
20 Feb 17
These things are also what I hated most
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
Glad that you feel the same.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
20 Feb 17
@jstory07 (134706)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Feb 17
Those are ten annoying things for sure. The worse id number five.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
It happened to me so many times.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
20 Feb 17
those are unbecoming of a dignified person. it also shows that person doing those things are not trained at home by their parents. GMRC should always be stressed
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
The right home training would help a lot.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
21 Feb 17
@Kandae11 indeed, that is so true
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• Trinidad And Tobago
20 Feb 17
Spiteful gossip mongers. I just dislike people who are up to no good...and even though they know they are destructive, they make it into a fine social art. Oh, you could add 'selfies'...although this is pretty harmless and non threatening to me. It galls me to see so 'vain' people in this world who really don't know how the 'value' of life...or the purpose either. Too much superfluous living life style.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
I know - gossip mongers can destroy people's lives - but they couldn't care less, otherwise - would they do it?
@syeow1 (5137)
• India
20 Feb 17
Oh great nice message
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
Thanks.
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@syeow1 (5137)
• India
20 Feb 17
@Kandae11 my pleasure.
• Bangladesh
20 Feb 17
Ohh I'm also annoyed at these matters. Nice post.
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
And these are the small ones.
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@Okay123 (103)
20 Feb 17
1 & 3 annoying
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@Kandae11 (53692)
20 Feb 17
Very much so.
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• Bangladesh
20 Feb 17
hmm