When is the right wrong, and the wrong right, or the right right, and the wrong wrong?

Are there really always two sides to an issue, even including love, for example?
@innertalks (23734)
Australia
February 21, 2017 5:08pm CST
We should not push our views onto others, but we should hold onto them in ourselves, shouldn't we, or shouldn't we? The insistence on being right does not come from the right, but from the wrong. It is merely a balancing act. This is a good test for us, because nothing right is right unless it is not being forced upon us, and even then, it, could in fact, be wrong. This is because both the right and the wrong are just labels. The right does not force, but dawns on you like a gentle cloud hovers over your head, and then disappears. But was it right or wrong? Everything is right for us in some ways, if it is the learning experience that it's meant to be for us. Even the right comes and goes, and only you are left, neither being right nor wrong. At this stage, duality, and its both sides have dissolved themselves into the oneness of love. “Use of No Use is Great Use." That quotes from Chuang Tzu, the Chinese philosopher, who lived sometime in the fourth century before Christ. The right of wrong is right, but the wrong of right is wrong. Both right and wrong can have their uses then. Are wrong and right separate, as with good and evil, or are each complementarily helping the other side to balance itself out, in some ways? There is only love, and so both sides try to pull love's energy to its own side, but overall balance is achieved, not by going to either side to the extreme, but by just following love on its middle path, going through both oceans on either side, without stepping so far out into each side that it drowns itself in its own waters of compliance within yourself. In other words, you are being too much of yourself, in either being too good or too bad, instead of just humbly loving without a thought as to what side you are really ever on. What do you think about this idea of right and wrong?
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@franxav (14588)
• India
22 Feb 17
A lot of fights, violent and not so violent, begin on this point.
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
22 Feb 17
Yes, they sure do. People like to take a position on one side of the fence or the other. I am just really saying to try to see some good in the bad sometimes, and to also realise that sometimes what we think is good, might not be so good for us sometimes either.
@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
22 Feb 17
Would be nice if more people could feel this way. But too many times people just want to be argumentative
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
22 Feb 17
Yes, they argue just for argument's sake, sometimes because they want to defend their own position, thinking that they have some type of a position to defend. The more we hang onto positions like this, the more we become stuck where we are right now. The way to move on, is not to hold on too tightly to our past, and to past positions.
@Shiva49 (28366)
• Singapore
23 Feb 17
@innertalks Democracy and freedom can also exist with healthy arguments and acceptance of others' point of view. However, we take it we have to argue and contest "till the cows come home" - siva
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@Shiva49 (28366)
• Singapore
22 Feb 17
When we are led by emotion, we think everything is right and fight on any issue. However, when our decisions are made out of love and love decides and overrides all other, we can see more clearly the various sides to the issue. When ego and greed override, patently wrong decisions are taken and it takes many lies to camouflage the earlier lie. We are still grappling with democracy and freedom with many lies deciding the outcome of elections and even our fate eventually. Life is a learning process but we should not repeat obvious mistakes like might is right - siva
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
22 Feb 17
Yes, this is why we need to give full sway to the love in our hearts. As soon as we allow another emotion to try and to jump past love, or some type of a thought, not powered by love, to rule over us, we have moved away from living from the perfect love that God tells us that it is indeed possible for us to all live from. Yes, this is what we are all learning to do in Life's learning process. How can we live perfectly only from love when we still do not have sufficient wisdom, understanding, and aware consciousness to yet do this? All of these things spring forth from love as you live from love's seed within you. You must apply love's living waters of truth to yourself continually, though, or the acid rains of your own thoughts will tend to stifle your growth, but it can never end it, (your growth, it's always happening in some way, or another), just sometimes slow it down.
@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
24 Feb 17
@Shiva49 Yes siva, greed is a big problem and I think that it is related to pride. Pride creates greed, whereas humility does not need these extra perks, and the need for these excessive want fulfilments. The end result of greed is to create more pride, and the end result of pride is to end up even more needily greedy, so that it is true to say that your pride is being fed by your greed.
@Shiva49 (28366)
• Singapore
23 Feb 17
@innertalks The soul connect has love written all over it. However, we get carried away by outside appearances to think we are at loggerheads with each other. But our creator, through nature, has provided us with enough to meet all our needs but the greed of few overrides the majority's earnestness to coexist - siva
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