SHE CALLED ME SIR.

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@Kandae11 (57230)
February 27, 2017 6:46pm CST
This evening a call came through on our land line phone and I answered. The young female voice at the other end asked to speak to someone none of us knew so I told her that she had the wrong number. Her reply was "sorry Sir" - then she hung up. Now I know that my voice is not the soft , melodious kind - but it is certainly not masculine. Perhaps there was a distortion on the line ,or the young lady was simply being mischievous or maybe to her ears - very feminine looking me did sound like a man. Have you ever been mistaken for the wrong gender because of your voice? or made a similar mistake like that young lady did? What kind of voice do you have? Is it - high, low, booming, shrill, sexy, sultry, soft or ordinary?
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
28 Feb 17
I've never been mistaken to be male over the phone, but people have assumed I was Hispanic. I don't have an accent, but when I say Spanish words, I pronounce them precisely correct (like names) - and the other person assumes I must be Hispanic - but I'm not!
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
28 Feb 17
@Kandae11 Oh, and I've only been told my voice sounded sexy over the phone when I was sick and had a rough voice!
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• Philippines
28 Feb 17
sounds like you have an ear for language @much2say
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
That would be mistaken identity yes.
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@JudyEv (382357)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Feb 17
I've been mistaken for Vince's daughter - that was pretty funny. Funny for me anyway.
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@JudyEv (382357)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Feb 17
@Kandae11 We were standing in front of the lady at the time so I must look a lot younger as well.
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
That means your voice is very young sounding.
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
@JudyEv Vince didn't mind - did he?
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
28 Feb 17
I don't think anyone has ever mistaken my voice for a man. I never liked my voice when I have heard it on recordings. I used to always say when I was young that I sound like The Nanny ... Fran Dresher.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
28 Feb 17
@hereandthere I loved that show but her voice was really annoying and her laugh. @Kandase lol I cannot sing at all either I am sure of that too!
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• Philippines
28 Feb 17
the nanny was shown here, too, and i loved it - and her clothes!
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
What I do know about my voice is that I could never be a singer.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
28 Feb 17
It hasn't happened to me, but I swear, our next door neighbor sounds like a woman when he answers the phone.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
28 Feb 17
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
1 Mar 17
happened to me as well
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
Yes, It does happen both ways.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
28 Feb 17
Depends on my mood what mine sounds like
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
Voices could change depending on the mood that person is in.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
28 Feb 17
Oh dear! Maybe there was just some weird distortion on the line. I have a low, soft voice. It's irritating when you want people to actually listen to you.
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
28 Feb 17
@Kandae11 lol - ah yes there have been a few times that I can recall
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
You can be loud when necessary, I am sure.
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@snowy22315 (209080)
• United States
28 Feb 17
I don't think so.,but Im sure it happens both ways!
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
I am sure it does.
@Nawsheen (28761)
• Mauritius
1 Mar 17
I used to work in a call center before and on many occassions i addressed women as Sir and Men as Madam. Sometimes it can be difficult to distinguish the voice
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@Nawsheen (28761)
• Mauritius
1 Mar 17
@Kandae11 neither is mine. If only i had a soft voice i would have been a great singer. Just kidding :p
@Kandae11 (57230)
1 Mar 17
I admit, my voice isn't the softest.
@prinzcy (32299)
• Malaysia
28 Feb 17
I never been mistaken based on my face and voice but my previous id tend to cause confusion. People tend to associate Prinzcy with male. Not to mentioned, I used cat as my image. Maybe it's close to Prince or something. I've using that id almost everywhere and there's almost someone who tend to think I'm a man. Oh well.
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
There were times when I wished I didn't look quite so feminine - it has got me into trouble many times.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
28 Feb 17
I am mistaken here for a man by many users. Wonder what their reasoning is. I have a voice that is purely feminine (lol)
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
28 Feb 17
@Kandae11 Even I make those mistakes
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
@allknowing I admit - I do as well.
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
They should read all of your posts - then there would be no mistake made.
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
28 Feb 17
Maybe she did it on purpose, or was just in a hurry and not thinking?
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
I would like to think - either one or the other.
• Eugene, Oregon
28 Feb 17
I think that I have a pretty good voice as far as tone and timbre are concerned. I have auditioned and been hired for a couple of local commercials.
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• Eugene, Oregon
28 Feb 17
@Kandae11 Thanks!
@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
Really? That is great!
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 Feb 17
always my friend. i sound like a transgender on the phone, but i also smile when my students accidentally address me as SIR even if they see me. i don't sound lady-like, and i have a loud voice as well, not the sweet voice of a woman.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
2 Mar 17
@Kandae11 hahaha! definitely my friend, i am a woman, but no more female internal reproductive organs, so that would make me a 'bisexual'? hahaha! just kidding
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
I think the students make that mistake because of your authoritative position -but you most definitely do look like a woman.
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• Philippines
28 Feb 17
Got mistaken for sexy because of my voice... but truth is I am sexier. Lol
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
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@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
28 Feb 17
Don't mind it so much. Do you know usually an attractive lady will have a less attractive voice? The world is fair
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
You know you are right. There is a beauty queen in my country who has a very deep voice.First time I heard her on the radio I was quite surprised.
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• United States
28 Feb 17
I have a rather husky voice and sometimes I'm glad a male.
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• United States
28 Feb 17
@Kandae11 I think it's from all my smoking years.
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
A husky voice is nice.
@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
@AbbyGreenhill That is quite possible --, and I am happy you are over that now.
@garymarsh6 (24028)
• United Kingdom
1 Mar 17
Not by the wrong gender but once they said could we speak to your mummy or daddy please. I said yes of course if you would like to set up a ouiji table!
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@Kandae11 (57230)
1 Mar 17
Does that mean they mistake you for a ten or twelve year- old?.
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
28 Feb 17
I had it too! The sales rep thought I was a man, because my voice is low!
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
Great! I have company then.
@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
28 Feb 17
Yeah I have mistaken on previous day which they thought I'm guy, but hey looking in your profile photo I thought you are man
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
You are joking right?
@responsiveme (22923)
• India
28 Feb 17
I have people call me sir on the phone too...and certainly my voice is not husky
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@Kandae11 (57230)
28 Feb 17
I would love to know what they are thinking.
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