learn to say, "i am sorry" no matter even if you are wrong

@pureme (1526)
February 27, 2017 8:08pm CST
a number of times we find it so difficult to admit we are wrong, why is it so? because human beings are just a rational being, we do anything for the gain of it. relationships crumble because we can't say the simple "i am sorry" try it, whether you are right or wrong. it works like a miracle. but why is it so difficult to say?
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Jeanne Marie
@Jeanniemaries (8237)
• United States
28 Feb 17
I think it's hard to say without an explanation. A simple I'm sorry is misleading if you are saying it to smooth things over. I prefer to say I'm sorry we disagree, I'm sorry I've made you upset, I'm sorry if I've been argumentative....unkind, unfair, etc. Saying it always helps as long as one is sincere.
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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28 Feb 17
well explanatory response you gave, that's cool. the bottom line is saying "i am sorry ............" we could add that considering the case or cases for saying
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jaishankar
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
28 Feb 17
I unhesitatingly say " I'm sorry" if I feel I was actually wrong. But if you say sorry for something you don't think was wrong, don't you think it would encourage them to go on doing wrong again and again?
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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28 Feb 17
I don't think so, I think saying sorry at that particular moment is for peace to reign, after that, when all is settled, then you will find a proper way of saying it
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jaishankar
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
28 Feb 17
@pureme You're right.But if you say sorry once,don't you think it would be difficult for you to prove you were right?
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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28 Feb 17
@else34 not at all , you only look for the best time to make things out.
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dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
3 Mar 17
I don't mind saying sorry as soon as I come to know that something has gone wrong from my side. I don't shy away from admitting my mistakes because I know that I am not infallible. Those who say 'sorry' to us (for their mistakes) surely gets respect from us.
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dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
5 Mar 17
@pureme Yes, I practice it.
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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3 Mar 17
That's true and it's good you can say it. I am trying to be like you mentioned
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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5 Mar 17
@dpk262006 oh that's great you are practising it. you know, practise make perfect
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The Invisible Man
@TheInvisibleMan (17603)
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28 Feb 17
"I'm sorry" it's not so simple to say sometimes.
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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28 Feb 17
yes, but when you just slightly utter it out, its a good remedy for great damages
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The Invisible Man
@TheInvisibleMan (17603)
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28 Feb 17
@pureme I totally agree with you.
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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28 Feb 17
@TheInvisibleMan thanks for that
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Anshu Raj
@Anshu246 (1076)
• Patna, India
2 Mar 17
We can say this..but never repeat to same person..if we have not done anything wrong and saying him /her sorry again and again and they are not forgiving being in ego..we also face these peoples sometimes
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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2 Mar 17
yes, it all depends on whether you want the relationship to work or not. if you really determined to make your relationship work, you can say it a million times.
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Anshu Raj
@Anshu246 (1076)
• Patna, India
2 Mar 17
@pureme ofcourse if i want to make the relationship ..I can tell million times..but it is sometimes good to move..because not all relationship we want is good for us ,which we realize after saying sorry million times..
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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2 Mar 17
@Anshu246 that is true, some people are not meant to be with you, actually, the case of being married is totally different especially when you don't believe in a divorce. In that case, you will do everything within your power to make the relationship work.
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staplotick
@stapllotik (1933)
• India
2 Mar 17
I would love to say "I'm sorry" to make others feel better given that they don't capitalize on that and realize their own share in the encounter.
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staplotick
@stapllotik (1933)
• India
2 Mar 17
@pureme it also depends upon the relationships. You will not say sorry to a stranger but you would say it to the people whose nature is known to you.
Purity
@pureme (1526)
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2 Mar 17
good. if you say you are sorry, it will leave a sense of guilt in the heart of the other people, knowing fully well, he was the one wronged, not you. but to say 'i'm sorry' is a problem we are all facing.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (460674)
• Switzerland
28 Feb 17
I do not agree that you have to say "I am sorry" if you are right. I agree that it's never good to start a fight, but to agree all the time and to be "sorry" for no reason does not bring anything good.
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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28 Feb 17
yes, you are correct. at times, your friend might think at the moment that you are wrong, but for the sake of peace, you have to admit that and later let him or her know you were right.
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S George
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
28 Feb 17
That's right there should be a mind to accept our errors.
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S George
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
1 Mar 17
Purity
@pureme (1526)
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28 Feb 17
Thanks a lot for agreeing to the post
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Manish Nandanwar
@ayushman899 (57)
• Nagpur, India
28 Feb 17
Everyone loves to say,"It's not my fault."
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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28 Feb 17
That's so true. When we don't accept our fault, we make excuses
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Shifa
@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
2 Mar 17
Really? Sure, I'll try... Truly. Thanku. Thanks alot
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Purity
@pureme (1526)
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2 Mar 17
Oh that's so cool to hear, please do try it, it helps to make peace reign in the home. Not trying to do it leads to malice.