You are a snob!

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
March 18, 2017 2:16pm CST
Did someone tell you that? One time, when I was still working as a call center agent in one of the leading Call center in our city. I received a note posted in my locker stating "You are a snob!" Trying to compose myself and be calm about it. I looked around if someone I know was the one responsible for the note but no one is around that time. So I imagine that there are some agent who displeases me. I am not use to talk to other agent unless if you are my team mate, maybe that is the reason. I mean, I am friendly and cheerful. It's just that I'm too shy to start a conversation first. Photo is me in black and white.
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Patsie Hatley is Deceased
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Mar 17
It is a crying shame that because you and I are shy we get called snobs, thats just patently unfair.
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The Horse
@TheHorse (238298)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Mar 17
I think people's insecurities lead to such labels.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Mar 17
@TheHorse I guess so. By the way, how are you? I haven't heard anything from you.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Mar 17
Haha. Maybe that's their impression of us, even if the fact is that we are shy.
Laurel (L_B)
@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
18 Mar 17
It is probably because you are shy and they mistook it for you being a snob but there was no excuse for anybody to do that to anybody. That is just mean.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Mar 17
Exactly. What I did, I posted a note answering that note saying - I don't need to explain myself with smiley on it. Lol
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Laurel (L_B)
@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
18 Mar 17
@JustBhem good for you
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Mar 17
@Happy2BeMe And I hope whoever it was got the message.
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Alfredo Rossi
@amadeo (111937)
• United States
18 Mar 17
that is very unfair there.Does he or she knows the definition of the word snob.?
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Mar 17
I don't know. I really don't have idea.
Judy Evans
@JudyEv (382019)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Mar 17
Although you may or may not be a snob - and I'm sure you're not - at least you are not a coward, going behind people's backs.
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The Horse
@TheHorse (238298)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Mar 17
I may be a snob about certain things, like good and bad music, But one would have to talk to me extensively to figure that out.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Mar 17
Yes. I am not. I really don't like to talk to people and start a conversation unless if I need to.
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ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
19 Mar 17
well, we cannot please everybody. so just maintain what you are, my friend. let them discover the real you, no need for you to approach them.
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ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
21 Mar 17
@JustBhem wow, are we of the same flock? hahaha! hija, i believe in the saying that... "Birds of the same flock, feather together!" ... errr, it is the other way around,right? "BIRDS OF THE SAME FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER!". heheh!
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Mar 17
@ridingbet Haha. High five!
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Mar 17
Exactly my friend. I wrote in reply to that note stating 'I don't need to explain myself to you. I hope whoever it was got the message.!
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Sasha
@diosabella (4789)
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19 Mar 17
Sometime the people who does that just want to have your attention. As if they are close and know you that much to say you are snob. They don't even think of how would you feel.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Mar 17
@diosabella I remember someone said to me that it was a new agent who wrote that. I tried to figured out why she did that, is that on purpose or just to make fun of me.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Mar 17
I also thought about that, but no one in my circle of friends wrote that. I asked them many times before.
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Sasha
@diosabella (4789)
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19 Mar 17
@JustBhem They are just irritating to you then. Its like your a fair game in their psycho play. I really hate those kind of people.
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The Horse
@TheHorse (238298)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Mar 17
I think shy people get called snobs now and than. Someone told me once (or twice) that I appeared "aloof," but I'm not, really.
JB_girl
@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
21 Mar 17
Seriously, you do look like one when you're not smiling. But the same goes for me. lol
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Mar 17
Haha. Really? Am I smiling the first time we met?
The Invisible Man
@TheInvisibleMan (17594)
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18 Mar 17
Don't worry... I've already heard that too.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Mar 17
And I'm not alone.
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The Invisible Man
@TheInvisibleMan (17594)
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19 Mar 17
@JustBhem No. You're not.
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