It doesn't matter whoever did the first move, as long as it's love. So be it!

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
April 3, 2017 12:04am CST
The first status I read in my news feed this morning on Facebook. It's from my cousin. I don't know if some of you here remembered the discussion I had about my cousin who stole her sister's Japanese boyfriend. I really don't know where she got the nerve to tell the world about it. And I feel like my entire human being soul is triggered by these nonsense statement of her. The entire neighborhood knows about her story and none of them believe that it was love. They are all laughing behind her back. Well, I cannot blame them for she is greedy and rude despite of her innocent face. She was the one who did the first move because the Japanese guy is worth all the money she can have. Who would fall for a 55 year old? Has 3 businesses in Japan. Single. Tell me if this is wrong? Photo I grabbed from Instagram. Lee Joon Gi fan here.
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13 responses
3 Apr 17
In an increasingly competitive world, it is increasingly difficult to take the first step.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr 17
Hmm. And do you think it's fair?
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3 Apr 17
@JustBhem Definitely not. But, taking the first step without knowing if it will be matched can scare many people.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr 17
@TheInvisibleMan Scary to the point that you don't know the person anymore.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
3 Apr 17
Taking someones boyfriend? No not at all right. Especially family members.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr 17
Yes, it is not right. I hope she will find happiness.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
5 Apr 17
She's a shrewd girl who would marry for money not for love. Who would believe that she fell in lobe with a 55 year old. For sure most are thinking indeed she's after the money of the man. I just hope he will share his money to her. Japanese men are known for letting their wives serve them like they were maids. I have a friend married to a Japanese and her situation is that way.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
6 Apr 17
@vickyrose Yes, it is a blessing in disguise to the sister, if ever the man is also as chauvinistic as the husband of my friend.
@vickyrose (2236)
• Cooma, Australia
6 Apr 17
I agree, Japanese men are rather chauvinistic. If she is prepared , then good luck to her. The sister should find a better man and be thankful that she was spared of future heartaches, thanks to her sister...
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
3 Apr 17
OMG! Where is the morality there? She is anaconda to her sister. That's so ridiculous for her to do that. Is she still have the guts to be connected to her family?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr 17
Yes. She still has the nerve. Why? Because her family thought it is a good idea. And for the money as well.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
3 Apr 17
i wonder where you are? it is that lady's fault because she stole a man from another woman. i hope karma won't see her.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
4 Apr 17
@JustBhem oh, i am sorry. i thought you went out of town, forgot your mobile phone or your WiFi that is why you were not around for a couple of days
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Apr 17
@ridingbet Sorry if I was missing in action my friend.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr 17
I had my session earlier my friend.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
3 Apr 17
It is not right especially where she went after him knowing that he was her sister's boyfriend. There is some things that you just never do and is unacceptable.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr 17
It is not. She should at least be kind to her sister since she is now the apple of that Japanese eyes, and the thing is. She is greedy.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
3 Apr 17
@JustBhem So sad that she could so that over greed but greed brings out the worst in people. I have seen what greed can do to a family when my mom passed away.
@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
5 Apr 17
That's why it's said love is blind. What's wrong in falling in love with a 55 year old guy if the love is true but when you are telling that your cousin has done it for money then it's wrong. Yes she is rude and weird.
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@epiffanie (11327)
• Australia
5 Apr 17
Some people don't have morals .. they would do anything for money ..
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@jstory07 (148735)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Apr 17
It is very wrong....
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Apr 17
Exactly.
@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
6 Apr 17
Love is not blind. Love sees but it doesn't mind. We never know what they felt. The financial status is just a bonus.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
6 Apr 17
Love is not jealous. Love should be pure. Love knows hatred. And Love should not be beg.
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
5 Apr 17
O Lol Is it a 100 meter race to win the competition? Shrewd and crooked never get happy in their entire life. I don't blame the lady itself , the man is a cheater who change his stands.
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@vickyrose (2236)
• Cooma, Australia
6 Apr 17
That's a desperate action. She probably saved her sister from a weak man. If she can live with her conscience, so be it. It's wrong as she hurt her sister. She doesn't care, it's a dog eat dog for her.
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@shaynas (5486)
• India
5 Apr 17
Love is blind, it says!! I don't know about the girl, i feel the man more at fault as he was already in a relationship.
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