Would you change who you are for someone else?

April 16, 2017 1:05am CST
Imagine yourself in a relationship (it can only be a friendship the great love of your life)... If it were necessary (due to some special event or something), would you change who you (i.e. your essence) because of the other person?
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
16 Apr 17
I think each of us are who we are. Can we pretend for a night? sure.
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16 Apr 17
@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
16 Apr 17
No I won't change myself I will be what I am and would like people would like me what I am.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
16 Apr 17
I think I wouldn't if loving someone. For job per se, I think I can be flexible to change my personality.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
17 Apr 17
16 Apr 17
@Shavkat Fair enough.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
16 Apr 17
Absolutely not!
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
16 Apr 17
No.
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@teamfreak16 (43576)
• Denver, Colorado
16 Apr 17
No, never. I've had girls try to change me. I'm no longer with them.
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16 Apr 17
@teamfreak16 We are on the same boat, mate.
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@moffittjc (128831)
• Gainesville, Florida
16 Apr 17
I don't think we can fundamentally change who we are, but we can fake it for a little while just to impress our significant other. But the true us will eventually come out. But at the same time, if the will is there, and we have the proper motivations from our better half, we can become a better person. It just takes the right motivation and willingness.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
14 Mar 18
When I was married I went along with my ex-husband until I learned to stand up for myself.
@manasamanu (3797)
• Bangalore, India
16 Apr 17
No why should we? I mean when they are themselves then why should we change ourselves. I f they can change then giving back the change is worth. Not from only one sided change.
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