Should Independence be promoted in Children?

@Gabugs (1895)
United States
May 2, 2017 10:16pm CST
Yes. It is vital for parents to guide and encourage their children to become independent individuals. To do so, Parents need to be actively involved in their children’s upbringing. Active Parenting is not a burden; it's a reward. What we do for our children is never wasted. Although our children may follow their own passions and interests, their success and well- being, can never out of parental control. Parents can help their children gain independence, by giving them a good amount of safe exposure and guiding them in the right direction. At the same time, it is important to allow children to follow their own beliefs and dreams, make their own decisions and solve their own problems. What better way for parents than to give children roots to cling to and wings of independence to set them free? IMAGE: Courtesy of Pixabay
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
3 May 17
I'm reminded of the Dalai Lama's saying - "Give the ones you love wings to fly, roots to come back to and reasons to stay". I agree that the best thing we can give our children is a solid base, while letting them explore.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
4 May 17
@Gabugs Yes I did notice, that's what made me remember it.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
3 May 17
@jaboUK Indeed yes. I totally agree. It is the parents/caregivers who need to stay firm and teach their children the fundamentals.You must have noted Janet, that this is almost the same saying I have used in my closing query.
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@JudyEv (381960)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 May 17
Begin a parent is a great responsibility and can be very rewarding. It is also a lot of hard work.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
3 May 17
@JudyEv We owe it to our Maker to be responsible parents. Only then, our children will learn to be productive adults.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
3 May 17
I think it is essential to train the children to be independent. It might be difficult but children can grasp the principles.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
3 May 17
Yes, children are always quick to learn.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
4 May 17
@Gabugs We just need to do it gradually. Because some children can be stressed out too.
@DianneN (254949)
• United States
4 May 17
As a former educator, I have to agree. We tried our best with our two sons, and one is doing the same with his youngsters.
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@DianneN (254949)
• United States
5 May 17
@Gabugs So sweet! Nice meeting you, too, Gabby!
@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
5 May 17
@DianneN How nice to meet a fellow educator. I'm sure you must have been a great parent. We also have two sons, and currently we are blessed to have them as responsible and productive individuals. Nice meeting you Dianne.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
4 May 17
Parents need to encourage their children to share every thoughts and view and also any incident that happened in school. This would help parents guide their children much better.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
4 May 17
@aninditasen So true! Parents would be wise to spend time and talk to their kids as much as possible, especially in their early years. Being closely involved in their lives is a good start and lays foundation for closer ties in the future.
• Trinidad And Tobago
4 May 17
I agree with you. I believe the first 18 years of a child's life they need to be supported , encouraged, nurtured and molded with the tools that they'll need later in life. FOUNDATION is all important. That's the essence of good parenting.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
4 May 17
@Gita That would be excellent for our children if all parents thought this way. I would say, even if its for the first 16 years- - - till your child reaches maturity, it would be ideal. Thank You for your input.