Recovery- Can Be a Long and Winding Road

@MarymargII (12422)
Toronto, Ontario
May 13, 2017 12:37am CST
With a hip operation there are so many things you have to be careful with after surgery. You're told not to cross your legs,twist your body, or bend too far. You also must always sit in a chair that keeps your hips above your knees- so no low toilets, chairs or comfy sofas. That said, I am allocated to a certain chair that is high enough and no other. So for a good month plus you are not going anywhere too far or for too long, (Unless you want to carry your built-up commode with you to your friend's or relative's) Plus- once there, you better have a walker to sit on or you might just end up on a chair that is too low and Lord knows- you could pop a hip! No- no visiting allowed for this reason. Yes, it is a slow comeback and you do need certain furniture and equipment to keep the hip in place as it heals. Bowling, Fly Fishing, and Ballroom Dancing are definitely out. Your bedroom and the washroom and maybe that high chair with cushions on it in the living room become your little world, for at least 6 weeks. But you still have to watch all those body movements for 3 months and you can't stand for long. Hip precautions- they call them. You're walker becomes your best friend. So, here I am almost a month in and things are getting better but all these rules and situations are a very big part of your life. Plus, I have to settle with easy to microwave dinners or my husband's cooking! No! anything but that! Thank God, my daughter drops in now and then to rescue me with something she has made. He does try though, but how often can you have canned soup, chips, bacon and/or burgers. Oh well- only a few more weeks to go- and thank God for pre-packaged salads, etc. or I'm sure I would have scurvy---ha! (an old-time disease from lack of Vitamin C). On a happy note- I am getting stronger- the surgeon said everything looks good so I am going to run--er should I say- push my walker- with that! ha!
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@prinzcy (32299)
• Malaysia
13 May 17
It's good to hear your recovery is continuing. Hopefully you get well soon.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 May 17
Thank you- it's an ordeal but the plus is no pain and eventually good mobility
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@Jackalyn (7558)
• Oxford, England
13 May 17
My neighbour had a hip operation. She is fine now, but it did seem to take time to recover. Hope your recovery comntinues well.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
17 May 17
As a skater, I've known a lot of people who've had hip operations - it is a big deal in recovery. What a relief to hear everything looks good and that you are indeed healing in the best possible way! I only had a split knee cap in a splint for almost 3 months - I cannot even compare it to a hip replacement - but I remember how there was so much to think about while waiting to heal!
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
19 May 17
I've heard that although it seems odd- and it is a bigger deal than a knee replacement- the hip is a little faster to heal- I wonder if it's because you don't bend the hip at all. :)
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
19 May 17
@MarymargII That may be. When I was finally able to be free, my knee was completely stiff from not being allowed to bend it for so long . . . I literally had to learn to walk again (sometimes my knee would give out - not in pain, but I just couldn't hold myself up). Do you feel "stiff" in the hip?
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
20 May 17
@much2say Yes but getting better when I remain in one position too long and have to build my weight bearing ability slowly- I am using a walker but may graduate to a cane as I tried it the other day and it wasn't bad.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
13 May 17
Your post brought this all back to me - it's 2 and a half years since I had mine done. My other one definitely needs doing but I'm putting it off as long as possible. That's good that your surgeon is pleased with your progress.
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
15 May 17
@MarymargII Oh lol - the mind boggles at yet more hips!.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 May 17
Yes, at least I knew the ropes- although I did seem to need more meds this time. The pain seemed stronger at first but it is better now. So glad it's over and I don't have anymore hips--ha!
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 May 17
@jaboUK Yes, it seems every hip I had wasn't up to par and needed repair- Now I can leap tall buildings at a single bound! ha!
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@Kandae11 (57233)
13 May 17
Healing takes time - and you are getting there slowly but surely.
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
13 May 17
It's good that you are nearly recovery. Look after yourself.
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@rebelann (117218)
• El Paso, Texas
13 May 17
Patience while healing is very tough, I had to be diligent when I had upper spine surgery in 1996, I was in a neck brace for over 6 weeks and could not drive nor could I lay flat to sleep, if I had I would not be able to get up by myself and since I live alone that could not be allowed to happen. It's nice to know you are healing and have a positive attitude which is half the healing meds you'll need.
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@rebelann (117218)
• El Paso, Texas
15 May 17
Not worse @MarymargII just different. In my case it was the upper body while in yours it's the lower. It's the diligence while waiting to heal that gets ya, in your case not being able to actually sit down must be a real test of your patience right now. In my case at the time it was not daring to lay down for fear I wouldn't be able to get up, it all worked out ok though and hopefully your's will as well.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
17 May 17
@rebelann So true and luckily I can sit down now- only as long as the seat is high to keep my hips far above my knees. How are you these days?
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 May 17
How did you get up then- sounds like a worse scenario than mine.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
13 May 17
I think you are going to recover fast.
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
18 May 17
Getting stronger is a good thing! It can be a long road to recovery, but it sounds like you are well on your way @MarymargII
@marlina (154103)
• Canada
13 May 17
Must be difficult to live like this for a while. But if your surgeon is telling you that everything looks good, well, that is EXCELLENT. I had Open Heart Surgery and it took me a long time to recover. Good luck!
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 May 17
Wow- how long did it take for you to recover from that and what were the rules you had?
@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
13 May 17
Keep the motivation to recover coming! Go go go!
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
19 May 17
Ha ha thanks! My leg and hip are getting stronger and better especially into the fourth week!
@DianneN (254926)
• United States
15 May 17
I love your sense of humor! You must do as the doctor says, and soon you will be good as gold!
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
17 May 17
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 May 17
Thanks Dianne- ha! I'll tell you one thing- I'm already cooking a few things- or I would have to have gastric surgery pretty soon- ha!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 May 17
Lots of rules. I'm glad your hip is healing and you can get around better. I couldn't trust my husband's cooking either when we were married. He was great on the grill, but that was it. I'm glad your daughter rescues you once in a while.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 May 17
@MarymargII Good idea.
@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
16 May 17
Oh yes- or I ask him to buy some pre-packaged thing I can actually eat and is a little healthy- since he doesn't eat salads much.
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17 May 17
It really takes time to recover from surgery. I had surgery May 11 last year. I could not climb upstairs for 2 months. Take it slow. Everything will be okay.
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18 May 17
@MarymargII if the pain is tolerable shun away from pain meds as much as possible
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
20 May 17
@Iam_jauntyjen Yes, I am trying to back off quite a bit- down to one to one and a half at night- and getting better. They are addictive so should be careful.
@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 May 17
You are so right- the weakness and tiredness are also a side effect plus the pain meds can make you drowsy. I am now weaning myself off as they can be addictive.
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
13 May 17
it does seem a bit tiresome with all those do's and don't s ... but I'm glad you're doing well...