My Mother is NOT a Mistress!!!

@Shavkat (141905)
Philippines
June 1, 2017 9:40am CST
“Your mom shouldn’t be a part of our family’s affair.” It is the rudest thing that you’ll ever read or heard from evil people. One of my late father’s brothers had said this statement. He definitely disrespected my mother. I fought back and said, “My mother is not a mistress.” They need to back off. In reality, she has all the right to claim my late father’s inheritance. Since the evil relatives are doing such bad behavior towards my mother. My siblings and I are doing her part to face these people. We are not raised to be greedy and know what’s right for the family. I am sorry for the rant, guys! “Do you find it rude?” Image Credit: unsplash.com
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13 responses
@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
1 Jun 17
Of course she has the right to inherit, this is the law here in Switzerland and also in my native Italy.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
Yes, my dear friend. I think these evil people don't know what they are saying.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
@LadyDuck They are starting to harass us lately. They were trying to piss me off.
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@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
2 Jun 17
@Shavkat They are horrible, it is a shame.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
1 Jun 17
I'm confused.. were they married? If so, then why wouldnt she be involved ?
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
My mom is the legal wife. I don't know why they insisting that my mom shouldn't be involved. They are trying to outcast my mom.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
@Courtlynn I agree. My late father's siblings are becoming evil and unreasonable.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
1 Jun 17
@Shavkat if she was married to him, it is her business. And she would be considered his main family. Not his brothers. Least here in the US.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
1 Jun 17
In my country there are laws for inheritances. Things have been changing with time though and a long time ago, children from unwed parents had less rights that the children had in wedlock. Now we also accept the wife even if the couple is not married by law.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
1 Jun 17
@Shavkat Then any lawyer can set things right easily for you.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
@marguicha No worries. It will come along the process. I think illegitimate children have the right to have their inheritance here.
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
I agree. In our case, we are legit. My parents married twice. I guess my late father's siblings are being unreasonable this time.
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• United States
1 Jun 17
That's horrible and very rude I hope you all get the share that is supposed to be yours
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• United States
1 Jun 17
@Shavkat I hope the process will be soon. I'd cut ties from them too.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
@infatuatedbby I agree. I really can't wait.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
It was a really rude act. I can't wait to cut our relationship with them after having the share.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
1 Jun 17
It is very sad that family members have such a rude behavior. I don't want to argue or fight with these members but definitely ignore them. If they still harass ask them to go out of our family.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
That would be next thing to happen. If they continued this to my mom, we will file a harassment case against them.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
@shshiju I also believe in bad karma. That would be the best thing for them to deserve it.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
2 Jun 17
@Shavkat Some people are like this type . They deserve their reward.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
i could not like this discussion again, my friend, because i am angry at your relatives for bringing out an unreal, fake and untrue opinion. i hope you were able to contain yourself with the anger. please correct me, but if the evil relative is "one of your late father's uncles", then he is your grandfather, right? or am i wrong?
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
It is my late father's brother. They are so rude not only to us especially to my mother. I always conceal my feelings towards them.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
@ridingbet I agree. Sorry it is a typo error.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
@Shavkat oh, so it should be "you late father's brother", not uncle.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
20 Jun 17
Seriously. .. I don't blame you for being upset. People like this have no right trying to step in like this. This is rude and uncalled for. Great way to lose respect for yourself and others when you do some th 8ng like this. This person needs to back off and realize life with your Mom is not always about him.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
21 Jun 17
I agree. It was really unacceptable for them to do this. We are in the process of cutting the relationship with the evil relatives.
@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
1 Jun 17
I don't know what your parents' relationship was so I can't judge. It sounds as if your uncle has a problem with it but he should respect your father's wishes whatever the circumstances.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
My late father and mom are married. That's the reason why my uncle is so rude on saying this.
@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
21 Dec 17
It does sound like there are some conflicts, not nice to exclude someone but i think perhaps affair here meant gathering? Still your mom is your mom that you love.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
21 Dec 17
There is a long battle between my family and our evil relatives. Hopefully, it will end early next year.
@prashu228 (37518)
• India
1 Jun 17
It's not at all rude. You have to speak up in such circumstances.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
I guess I am not the rude. My uncle does.
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
2 Oct 17
I proud of you that you protest for your mother's insult, your uncles should know your mom is not alone and helpless always support your mom as your father is no more.
@Mareena (443)
1 Jun 17
Extremely yes dear. One of my uncles (father's brother) wife is also such a bloody b**ch. Dats why we need to intake members to our family tree wisely. As this is one of ur uncle....such illiterate idiots also exist. I understand how bad you feel.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
2 Jun 17
I agree. My uncle is full of mediocrity. His behavior is not acceptable.
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
1 Jun 17
Oh :( you have a tough family. Of course he was rude, but you did your best to defend her. As I told you, I hope the best for you, your siblings and your mom, and that justice be done.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
1 Jun 17
Don't worry, my friend. It is our part to stick together as a family and fight these people.
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
1 Jun 17
@Shavkat That's right, I'm glad you know that
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
@luispas No problem about this concern,
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