Ring the Bell!

@BettyB (4117)
Summerville, South Carolina
June 12, 2017 3:20pm CST
When I first started my radiation treatments, my son’s girlfriend asked me if they had a bell in the radiation oncology department like they do in the infusion center. I didn’t know what she was talking about so she told me about her mother’s chemo therapy. Trisha’s cancer was an aggressive one. Over the last two years of her life she went through four rounds of chemo therapy. Apparently in the infusion room there is a bell hanging on the wall. When a patient completed their series of treatments they would ring the bell on the way out the door. I thought it sounded kind of silly, but who was I to judge? After traveling to and from the cancer center every day for the last month the bell has taken on new meaning. (Yes, they have one in the radiation oncology department.) Radiation therapy is nothing compared to chemo therapy, but I was so ready to be done with it. Over the course of the last month I have made friends with several people going through the same thing I was going through. It didn’t take me long to realize how fortunate I was. Several of the men were facing 45 treatments instead of the 20 I had to deal with. Many of the patients spent a month or more getting chemo therapy before being sent on to the radiation oncology department as well. Today was my last treatment. I rang the bell while my new friends cheered and clapped. I rang it more for them than for myself. I walked out for the last time today, but they will be back there again tomorrow. I wanted to remind them that they too would one day ring the bell.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
12 Jun 17
Congratulations, ringing the bell is a great rite of passage. My brother had radiation on his sinuses last year, I will have to ask him if he got to ring the bell.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
15 Jun 17
@BettyB I did asked my brother if he got to ring a bell and he said no so it is not something that they do at the hospital where he went.
@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
13 Jun 17
Ringing it felt good and right. I'm cancer free and we've done everything possible to keep it from coming back. I thank God every day for the advances in science and the hope it offers.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
15 Jun 17
@BelleStarr I met an old friend the last time I was down there. It was her third bout with cancer. I'm praying for her every day, but I have a feeling the cancer is going to win. She doesn't have the strength to fight it anymore.
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@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
12 Jun 17
That is great that you had your last treatment today. I wish you all the best. I think the bell is a wonderful idea and like you said not just for you but for the others who are stilling going through treatments. One day they will ring the bell for others.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
13 Jun 17
I know others rang the bell while I was going through treatment but I never heard it. The technicians, my radiologist, and the people I've met were wonderful. It could have been a harrowing experience but it wasn't.
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@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
13 Jun 17
@BettyB That is great.
@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
13 Jun 17
That is a wonderful idea, ringing the bell to indicate the end of that phase of your life. I hope all goes well for you now and that ringing of the bell gave hope to those who had to return.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
13 Jun 17
The applause was heartwarming. I worry about some of the people I left behind. My treatment plan was easy compared to what some of them are going through.
@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
13 Jun 17
@BettyB , I am so happy and relieved for you, that you got to ring the bell for your last treatment. And as a motivation for those needing to continue treatment. I hope you will only get stronger and healthier each day.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
13 Jun 17
@BettyB I can only imagine. I am so relieved you you discovered the mass when you did. And I truly only wish you the best of health each day now!
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
13 Jun 17
@bluesa Thank you so much!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
12 Jun 17
Congratulations on ringing the bell for your last radiation treatment and for your new friends. I wish you nothing but the best of health from here on out! My family never mentioned the bell.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
13 Jun 17
Some clinics put more emphases on it than others. I think it means more to the people finishing chemo therapy. It's a harder therapy to endure than radiation. Other than a little burn and some fatigue, it was an easy process.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
13 Jun 17
@just4him (308785)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Jun 17
That's wonderful! I'm glad you rang the bell today. That brought tears to my eyes that you are done with that. I can see how it would encourage those who still need to get their treatments.
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@just4him (308785)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Jun 17
@BettyB I'm sure it wasn't fun. I get an infusion every eight weeks, next one is June 22. I look forward to it being over. The treatment as I hate needles. I'll be having the infusion for the rest of my life.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
15 Jun 17
@just4him I am reminded every day how blessed I am. My treatment plan was fairly simple. I see the oncologist today and will be going on estrogen reducing medication for at least the next five years. The cancer tested 100% for estrogen receptors. Eliminating the fuel it feeds on is the best way to keep it from coming back. I don't like the side effects it will cause but its better than the alternative.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
13 Jun 17
It was an experience. While going through this was not fun, I met so many wonderful people because of it.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Jun 17
Oh that is a touching experience. I didn't know why there' a bell in that room. So, it is being rang to announce that you have done one radiation therapy. Indeed, after finished the series of treatment there's a reason for you to ring the bell many times. I am happy that you already finished your radiation therapy my friend.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
13 Jun 17
The bell is rung at the completion of the series. I only had to go 20 times but some of the people there will be sitting in that room all summer. I know they look forward to when its their turn to ring the bell.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
14 Jun 17
@silvermist (19702)
• India
13 Jun 17
I wish you the best of health in the coming years.A simple sentence like ''Ring The Bell"with such a profound meaning
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
13 Jun 17
It was uplifting. My son's girlfriend's mother rang the bell several times over the last few years. It gave her hope but in the end God called her home.
@jstory07 (135173)
• Roseburg, Oregon
13 Jun 17
So that is a good thing when you ring that bell.
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@jstory07 (135173)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Jun 17
@BettyB That's great.
@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
13 Jun 17
It felt good.
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• United States
13 Jun 17
Ringing the bell does take on a new meaning when it comes time to walk out that door for the last time. Congratulations on your bell ringing and prayers that you never have to worry about it again.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
13 Jun 17
Thank you. Your prayers are appreciated.