Ancestry

United States
June 24, 2017 7:36pm CST
I wasn't quite sure how I would begin this discussion. I had a pretty good idea of how to and then ended up getting sidetracked and had forgotten exactly what I wanted to say. I guess I will have to improvise and try to remember all the key points I wanted to make. Finding out about ones ancestors is an exciting thing. Maybe not for everyone, but I have to say that I immensely enjoy immersing myself in the world that was my ancestors. It hasn't always been an easy thing to do, and I haven't even gone back to try to find out info about my grandmother's (father's mother's) parents. I did have a lead on one thing that had me side tracked for awhile but I will have to start from the beginning to find that lead again. It's made even harder when people who are also researching decide to give out false information. The majority of these people are just following what others are posting / writing up without doing their own research or verifications. Others, usually the ones posting the false information, want to do so to become part of a prestigious group. One such group is the Daughters of The American Revolution. I am not personally dealing with anyone else. I prefer to do my own research and look at documents myself. I won't go asking questions unless absolutely necessary, and I don't think I'll ever have the need to do that anyway. There are people who will intentionally put a wrong date for a birth or a death, who will make some cockamamie story about a person they never met, just so they can say that their "great great great uncle such and such fought in this or that war or was part of this or that movement." I don't care what my great great great whatever did in life. I don't need them to be part of any war (though one of them was, and I have proof) or done anything of remarkable value. I don't care about any of that. I want to know what they did for a living, where they lived, who they married, and what their children's names were. I want to know if they knew how to read and write, if they went to church. Someone in my family is doing research on my mother's side of things while I am doing the same but for my father's side. The researcher for my mother's side has related to me about a guy who has tried to convince my relative to sign myself and his daughter up for the DAR or Daughters of The American Revolution. This same person is also one of the ones to falsify the information that is out there just so he can "prove" the legitimacy of his claim. I just shake my head and say "some people care about titles more than they do about family." I know there are several of us who are doing our own research and so I made this post as a reminder to always look for documented proof! Don't believe what someone else has said! Also, I can't remember the website off hand, but there is one such website that is offering free access (for this weekend? or maybe week?) to documents in Ireland and Scotland.
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@celticeagle (189915)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jun 17
This is an interesting subject. I use Familysearch.org to do my tree. One of the other Mylotters was talking about it in a post they did on this subject.
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• United Kingdom
26 Jun 17
I stopped using familysearch when they refused to right a wrong concerning my great-nana's siblings. They have no personal relationship with any of the names they look up so they don't seem to be fussed when they get something wrong.
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@celticeagle (189915)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Jun 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum .......I just go for the dates and such. It was very helpful.
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• United States
26 Jun 17
My grandfather does research and there is one such website where he is constantly arguing with the people there because they are falsifying things or taking others word for it. It *might* be family search but I'm not really sure. I use family search but ONLY for it's documents (and only if I can see the original document). I've looked through others family trees and see so much that is messed up.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
25 Jun 17
Yes should always get proof.
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• United States
25 Jun 17
You don't know how many people I've seen going through what other people have said and not looking for proof themselves.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
25 Jun 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum oh i can believe it.
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@jstory07 (148734)
• Roseburg, Oregon
25 Jun 17
Find out as much as you can it is exciting to find out about relatives.
@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
26 Jun 17
I never rely on other people, ever. And if people contact me through ancestry or other sites I always tell them the information I have may not be correct because I don't think people should rely on me, either! Genealogy blows my mind; two, four, eight, sixteen, thirty-two, sixty-four, one hundred and twenty-eight, two hundred and fifty-six, five hundred and twelve, one thousand and twenty-four, two thousand and forty-eight ... that's how many ancestors you have going back just eleven generations. Eventually {And not as far back as one might think} you have more direct ancestors than people that have EVER existed! Madness.
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• United States
26 Jun 17
My maiden name has changed over several generations. McK to McC to McK again but spelled differently. I once looked through this website that comes off as being believable, atleast to a new researcher like I was. I quickly learned that a lot of the things the woman claimed were fanciful. A lot of people have "copied" her stuff and posted it on sites like ancestry. You really have to watch out for that kind of stuff! The blind leading the blind. That's one reason why I don't use paid sites, because you can't always trust what is being put on them. If I can't see the actual document, then I don't tend to believe it. It is amazing how many people have shared a bloodline. Centuries start to blur when you look at it that way, especially when you can are able to find physical evidence of their lives.
• United States
25 Jun 17
Genealogy is awesome! Not just for the names and dates of life events, but the family stories and why we are the way we are.
• United States
25 Jun 17
Yes but sometimes family stories are hard to come by. It's lovely when we have word of mouth stories or even old family bibles, but then there are times when we don't have either. I am doing research for my dad's side, and they are very very reserved.
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• United States
26 Jun 17
@librarygeek1980 I don't even have that, except for what I could find online. Even those I can't be sure are real.
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• United States
25 Jun 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum some are like that, some of my family members kept journals, some did not. All we have are family photos