My boyfriend is still grieving over the loss of his wife

July 18, 2017 4:43am CST
I just do not know what to do or what to say? Tomorrow is her birthday and he plans on staying locked up in his home and not going out in public. He says he loves me and that Im his girlfriend.He wants me to move into his home as his girlfriend while not making his wife sometime down the road. I feel that should become his wife after sometime. I also know I should be treated with love and respect. I am asking for some insight here. Have anyone here been in the same boat? All ideas and suggestions are welcome.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Jul 17
I'm sorry, that is a really tough situation. Your boyfriend needs time to grieve and that time is different for everyone. Perhaps he wasn't quite ready to be in another relationship just yet. It's an unfair situation to you and him. =( There's nothing you can do except be there for him when he needs it and to give him some space when he needs that.
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@marlina (154163)
• Canada
18 Jul 17
It seems to me that your boyfriend is not yet ready for a new relationship.
@Shavkat (137310)
• Philippines
18 Jul 17
I think it is better to talk with each other. It would be unfair if he still loves the ex-wife.
@dollaboy (6048)
18 Jul 17
No experience fella, best wishes