Betty Redd

@bellatt (63)

Joined myLot 9 years ago

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Fall down seven times get up eight time.

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58679) • Delhi, India 17 Jul 17

There comes many moments in our life when we feel upset, beaten, and down and out. However, we need to come out of our sorry state of affairs and need to fight the battle of our life to survive. There is a Chinese proverb which...

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Betty Redd I will say that getting up for the eighth the is the right way to continue. Striving to overcome what problems he or she has in this life Take time to make right decisions,Issues can be walked through by one day and one step at a time. I cannot give up my will...

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My boyfriend is still grieving over the loss of his wife

Betty Redd @bellatt (63) 18 Jul 17

I just do not know what to do or what to say? Tomorrow is her birthday and he plans on staying locked up in his home and not going out in public. He says he loves me and that Im his girlfriend.He wants me to move into his home as...

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How much do you tip at restaurants?

The Horse @TheHorse (234899) • Walnut Creek, California 13 Jul 17

When I was little, my dad taught me to tip 15%, 20% if the service was particularly good. I've done that pretty much ever since. My "tip-o-meter" generally varies from 13% (lame service) to just over 20% (really friendly and good...

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Betty Redd @TheHorse Hi. I live in Michigan.

14 Jul 17

How much do you tip at restaurants?

The Horse @TheHorse (234899) • Walnut Creek, California 13 Jul 17

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Betty Redd I usually pay 15% tip if the service is really good. other wise I don't leave a tip.At other places I do like you do.I leave a dollar tip for my purchase of food and drink. This is the most I can leave most of the time since I am a senior citizen.

14 Jul 17

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Good Evening!

Blondie2222 @Blondie2222 (28610) • United States 7 Jul 17

Hello everyone how is your day going so far? Mine has been pretty good. My niece left about an hour ago and since then I have finally got my shower in for the day, folded some laundry and still got dishes to do which i'll do in a...

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Betty Redd Hi. Its been a good day for me. It has really been a hot day for summer. I did some things you just did dishes and putting away laundry. Watching a show is a great way to relax for the evening. I hope you are enjoy your evening too.

7 Jul 17

Did my non-speaking kid really utter a full sentence?

The Horse @TheHorse (234899) • Walnut Creek, California 7 Jul 17

As I've mentioned in previous posts, I'm working at the preschool with a kid who understands everything but doesn't speak. He's 2 1/2, and very attached to me. On Wednesday, while building sand houses together, I said to him: Am...

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Betty Redd Hi. I think its great you are helping a child to thrive in his speech while it seems you are very close to him as he is to you. You words of inspiration show you are helping Noah grow in life and making a difference in yours.

7 Jul 17

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What things put stress on marriages and other romantic relationships?

The Horse @TheHorse (234899) • Walnut Creek, California 29 Jun 17

When Vanny and I divorced, TMZ and other internet gossip sites were all abuzz. Was there infidelity involved? Did The Horse learn Mandarin instead of Hindi? Did Vanny's father only offer The Horse 100 goats to take her? Actually,...

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Betty Redd I think in-laws can be a problem if they step into an argument between a husband and wife. Parents intentions for helping their children may backfire causing a destruction of the relationship.All couples have different values when they marry. Before marriage...

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What was the worst day of yout life?

Malik Griffin @Megaflame37 (114) 28 Jun 17

I'm just curious to know. There have been some times in my life were I felt like a complete failure or luck was against me. There were times where it lasted from a week and I just felt like giving up. I just wanted to know what...

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Betty Redd Hi. The worst day of my life was when my daughter Angela died of cancer. She passed away on September 16,2004. Angie was only 30 years old. I am not the same person I was at that time I learned to love more, more thoughtful of other people I laughed more...

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IS IT OKAY TO MARRY A LADY OLDER THAN YOU

PRN Roland Akpochere @Roland2 (48) • United Kingdom 24 Jun 17

I have some older lady that am chatting with on facebook and lovestruck and am kinda liking the both but am still wondering if it okay dating older women.

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Betty Redd Hi. I think its great for you. There is nothing wrong with dating and older woman. She could be the one for the rest of your life. I wish you both all the best. I am dating a younger man and he is just wonderful,while treating me like a queen.

25 Jun 17

Hopeful Help

Nanette Piotrowski @nanette64 (20363) • Fairfield, Texas 15 Jun 17

I have mentioned that I don't normally have 2 pennies to rub together and that robbing Peter to pay Paul is a constant struggle. The bills are overwhelming and by the middle of the month, there is zip, zero, zilch, nada. When my...

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Betty Redd Hi. I can relate to not always having enough food in the house.I am glad your daughter was able to get you some food. She got there just in time to help you, The go fund me page for you is great and this should help you a lot. I will be 62 in October so paying...

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Looks LIke I Will HIt 8 little Dollars Tonight

Patsie Hatley is Deceased @Hatley (163772) • Garden Grove, California 15 Jun 17

Another month wilth me just not quite making my goal of 20 dollars a month as I wll have 8 whole dollars and the months half over it should be about 11 dollars iif I was doing as well as I used to lol I obly made 18.99 last...

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Betty Redd Hi. I was wondering how much writing you had to do in order to get close to the twenty dollars? Did it take you more than a month? Im on a fixed income too and this little extra will me during the month.Any suggestions of ideas would be very helpful . I do...

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If you could change one single thing in this world, what would that be?

anthony davis @lookatdesktop (27143) • Dallas, Texas 13 Jun 17

If you could change one thing about your country, what or who would it be? Don't be afraid to be straight with me. This is myLot, not the Supreme court. And not the Spanish Inquisition. Would you for instance ... Become the...

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Betty Redd I would make sure that no person would ever be poor in this country. The second part is my father and mother would still be living,along with my daughter would Angela living here with me. The final part to this is no person would ever die in this life.These...

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One of the myLot gifts I am most thankful for.

April @thislittlepennyearns (66497) • Defuniak Springs, Florida 15 Jun 17

MyLot has given me lots of things, friendships, knowledge and a little extra money in my PayPal account every month, but one of the things I am most thankful for is the friendship that I have developed with @Courtlynn. She is...

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sister from another mister

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Betty Redd Good afternoon. You are right there are great things on mylot even for me just getting writing expriance Learning from others here helps me to understand people a lot more. I like the joy I receive when others reach a goal or when a birth announcement is made...

15 Jun 17

How many of your prefer laptops to home computers?

Hanni Harel @Hannihar (130150) • Israel 13 Jun 17

I am a home computer person. I had a laptop but did not like it and it is too heavy for me to carry around. I have very badly injured shoulders.

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Betty Redd Hi. I like both. If I soon can buy a desktop I will be doing that which includes everything as far as I know.I have a dell laptop which I purchase in December of 2014.Its one of the best computers I have ever owned. The next time though,I'm going to do some...

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Searching for a job...

Lena Kovadlo @lovebuglena (49143) • Staten Island, New York 13 Jun 17

In a fairy tale world someone will knock on your door and say something like "You're hired! Your job starts tomorrow..." In the real world that is never going to happen. You have to submit resume after resume to available...

searching for a job

job searching tips

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Betty Redd Hi. I can understand your search for a career can take some time. I personally checked out different jobs with different occupations. I also went to the employment office to see what jobs were hiring. Some places will provide classroom training. For example...

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