Accepting comments and opinions from your spouse or partner

@peachpurple (13961)
Malaysia
August 19, 2017 1:00am CST
In a relationship, it is a wonder how do some couples or marriages would break up on the end . Besides loving each other, one of the partner or spouse had to give and take in order for two hands to clap ( if you know what it means). One of the criteria is to accept comments and opinions from your spouse or partner. Don't rebuke or answer back when he/she is saying her comments of your behavior, actions, bad habits, meals that you had cooked, cleanliness of the house and the time you had spent on blogging. Listen and discuss, that is the way to communicate with your spouse or partner. If you keep giving your reasons for whatever comments, both of you will end up angry with each other and arguments would be a constant issue every time one of you opens up. Yesterday, my hubby was commenting on my Chicken Curry flavor and he suggested ways to improvise it. Listen and learn. Do you always argue back when your partner / spouse give comments?
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
I'm someone who loves to argue.
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
@JolietJake I do, I do. Wanna argue?
@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
@JolietJake try me.
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@toniganzon (77261)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
@JolietJake if only...
@fly802 (1383)
19 Aug 17
I`m afraid of argue.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
19 Aug 17
Me too
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@fly802 (1383)
19 Aug 17
@peachpurple Happy to hear that I`m like you.
@LadyDuck (502729)
• Italy
19 Aug 17
I accept comments as my husband accepts comments from me. We are married from 45 years, no problems between us.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
19 Aug 17
good to hear that
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• Japan
19 Aug 17
I don't have a spouse or partner, but in a less intense way, this also is true of working relationships. I have to listen to my colleagues and they listen to me too. Actually it helps a lot and we both learn things!
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
19 Aug 17
@petatonicsca oh you are single? You are teaching in Japan, so you are not a Japanese origin, right? Where is your birth place? yes, listening and learning helped a lot in relationship
@Prshnth (907)
• Bangalore, India
19 Aug 17
I have seen fights and disagreements between my parents...thats why marriage scares me
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
19 Aug 17
me too. You have to be ready for arguments if you intend to marry